I've been together with my boyfriend for a year and something and now my boyfriend wants me to sleep over at his place and soon move in with him. When do you think is the best time to move in?
2006-06-14 17:54:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whenever you feel you want to be together enough and know that you've taken into account all it entails, good and bad. Do you want the other to know when you're in the bathroom; have you considered whether they'll want friends, relatives round; are you both going to cook (will you cater for partner's tastes); how will the bills be paid; will the one who caused the mammoth phone bill pay their percentage, etc etc? All mundane sounding here, but a potential recipe for disaster when you're in the same space a lot -YOUR HOME!!
2006-06-14 18:54:00 · answer #1 · answered by stormsurfer_is_me 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Only you can really answer this. Good questions to ask yourself and your partner include, do you have enough money to support a home in the way you are accustomed? Do you feel that you want to form a lasting and very serious commitment with just this one person and do they feel the same? Do you think that you are likely to fall out of love? Is this person your best friend? Do you get on with his friends? Would you mind entertaining them?
Ask yourself some serious questions about your place in life and your relationship with your boyfriend and others before you move in together, to avoid mistakes.
2006-06-16 12:34:59 · answer #2 · answered by Fluorescent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're married. Do you want to ruin that? I mean come on, part of the fun of dating is getting to miss him. And part of the fun of marriage is moving in together and getting to know eachother better. If you two are serious, I think you should hold off. And plus, it might strain what is right now a beautiful relationship. Sleepovers are fine, but moving in is ridiculous.
2006-06-15 02:29:57 · answer #3 · answered by Noel H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl don't do it, once you move in things will change don't put your self in a place where nothing belongs to you but your clothes. If it is really serious tell him lets get a place together so if anything goes down he can't just kick you out. But what ever you do think about it a while.
2006-06-15 01:00:49 · answer #4 · answered by roverboy4life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u do intend to move in then please find a new place altogether , share the finances , share the responsibilities . if u just move in to his place, it's always gonna be like "this is my place, these are my rules" sorts.....i guess u get the drift .
the best option: don't move anywhere at all . stay where u guys are at the moment and enjoy your time together. it's less complicated. cheers :-)
2006-06-15 01:05:54 · answer #5 · answered by dxb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will be the right time when you do not get in any way freaked out by the idea.
ie when you feal ready to.
you are not ready at the moment as you have posted this question.
tell him you want time to let the reltionship grow naturally.
you will know when the time is right.
2006-06-15 01:07:09 · answer #6 · answered by pete a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your current landlord evicts you for turning his property into a crack house. Then move in with your boyfriend.
2006-06-15 04:36:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never! unless your parents sling you out!,You have less money and will have to pick up after him.
2006-06-15 02:07:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anytime you feel ready to be picking up his underwear, and giving him sex on tap.
2006-06-15 01:07:41 · answer #9 · answered by trebs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right after the wedding seems about the right time.
2006-06-15 01:45:48 · answer #10 · answered by Tim S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋