whose ur best "guy" bud and he's feeling a little more than friends. u feel it 2 but r afraid that if u take this chance u'll lose him as a friend forever and/or get 2 serious plus theres an age difference- WUT DO U DO?
2006-06-14 17:09:56 · 10 answers · asked by Valerie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
better that then a "what if" the rest of your life........and if your friendship is good now and it doesn't work out, you might become better friends. think of the positive not the negative, what you dwell on, you will follow; what you follow, you will dwell on
2006-06-14 17:19:55 · answer #1 · answered by Blaze.of.Glory 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well..u have 2 ask urself whats more important the chance of losing this guy as a best friend or the chance of gaining this guy as a husband/serious boyfriend
2006-06-15 00:14:32 · answer #2 · answered by RJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two feel the same thing, you can't be just friends because your feelings won't let you...I think you shoud talk to him and you should make a deal: "If you brake up, you'll keep being friends...and if you brake up by fight, you both try to forget about it and still be friends...". Good Luck!!
2006-06-15 00:21:24 · answer #3 · answered by hahanos! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this same thing happened to me and later in the relationship we found that we didn't like each other anymore and we broke up and we were still friends like we were.oh we went out twice.so just go for it.trust me!!oh who cares about the age diff i mean my mom and dad r like 5 years apart in age so still go for take a dive!! :)
2006-06-15 00:28:46 · answer #4 · answered by slipknot_luva_24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've done that before and the relationship would have worked out great if the guy didn't turn out to be such a dog and a liar. he showed me a side to him that i had never seen before.
not saying this will happen to you, this is just what happened to me.
2006-06-15 00:13:08 · answer #5 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, might be the best relationship you have. Those feelings wont die out. Remember age is mind over matter....if you dont mind it dont matter.
2006-06-15 00:33:39 · answer #6 · answered by Luvnu_always baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow
thats great that ur best bud has been feelin somthin else also for you
n i mean friendship is the first step to love
who knows u gettin both his friendship n love
so just go for it n say yes
i mean if my best bud(for whom i feel somthin more than jst frens)saz yes i'll be................
you know wat i mean
so jst go n say yes
2006-06-15 00:19:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, its all upto you. he could end up being your soul mate, or (this happened with me and a girl i was best friends with..) you could end up hating each other. it all depends on how YOU want it to be. i would go for it.
2006-06-15 00:13:31 · answer #8 · answered by Marines 4 Life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go for it. you only live once! haha. it could turn into something great. you can worry your life away!
2006-06-15 00:12:29 · answer #9 · answered by Diego 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only live once! Go for it!
2006-06-15 00:12:56 · answer #10 · answered by yadirajosie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋