The pharmacist is a great friend, taught me to salsa, loves kids (I have four) and is a couple of years older than me.
The biker works for the railroad, has a chopper, and is GREAT in the sack. Younger than me and does NOT want kids. But he's GREAT in the sack (don't know if I mentioned that yet)
2006-06-14 16:48:35 · 17 answers · asked by Just Gone 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you reminded me of a joke.
a lawyer wants to hire a secretary.
he interviews three women.
he has an honesty test, he leaves a twenty on the floor in the reception area and waits to see if anyone turns it in. Only one girl turns in the money.
Who does he hire?
A no brainer, the girl with the nicest body of course.
You have a choice.
The sports car or the minivan.
When I am having my mid life crisis, I rather be riding in style then in comfort.
Be reckless you only live once.
2006-06-14 17:56:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Okay, so the biker doesn't want kids, yet you have four of them. Hmm. I wonder how long your relationship with him will last? Maybe until the sex gets boring after a couple weeks to a couple months?
Why don't you try and educate the pharmacist on how to be a better lover? It sounds like you could have a stronger relationship with him, but don't settle for him if there isn't any sexual attraction.
2006-06-14 23:52:24 · answer #2 · answered by imrational 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously if you are just looking for a casual time go with the biker. However, if you want a long term relationship that is fulfilling for you and your children you should go with the pharmacist. No offense, but if you have four kids it's probably time to give up the immature liking "bad boys" thing.
2006-06-14 23:53:40 · answer #3 · answered by amanda6500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're dating while you have children, you can't just concentrate on whether the guy is good in bed. You have to worry about how he'll treat your children. You're at a point in your life where you have to date guys assuming they'll be around a while (even if they're not) because you should be more worried about how he'll be with your kids if you end up marrying him. The biker sounds too immature to be with a real woman with kids. The pharmacist sounds like your best bet. You guys are good friends, which is extremely important in building a long-lasting, truly loving relationship, he teaches you things, and he'll love your kids like you do if you give him the chance.
Just remember, you have kids now. It's not just about you. It won't be all about you until they grow up and move out. Such is the joy of parenting!
Good luck :)
2006-06-14 23:53:38 · answer #4 · answered by sunspot2010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you slept with the pharmacist? If not how do you know he ain't good in the sack too. Make your decision based on whether you want kids or just hang out with biker buddy's all the time.
2006-06-14 23:53:14 · answer #5 · answered by Desperate Housewife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pharmacist, pharmacist, pharmacist, pharmacist, pharmacist
Oh' did I mention the pharmacist he is stable and he makes a ton of money which will become your money and he loves kids.
and you can teach him the art of love making to your way of thinking and make him do it the way you want him to...but go slow so not to scare him or hurt his feeling about you teaching him sex..do not let him know your teaching him..just keep bringing in new stuff and help him to where you need him to be, and I bet he will surprise you too..and surpass the biker guy.
plus he loves kids and he has MONEY.
OH' did I mention the pharmacist is the one you should be leaning heavily towards
smile
good luck
and God bless
2006-06-15 21:39:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for long-term, the pharmacist, but if all you care about is the sack, then by all means the biker. Be prepared to be lonely though.
2006-06-14 23:52:09 · answer #7 · answered by kitten lover3 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a clue. He doesn't like kids. Go with the Pharmacist.
2006-06-14 23:51:33 · answer #8 · answered by Mommymonster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems to me with 4 kids you have had enough of " good in bed" time to get a more " stable" relationship... now if your working on a "stable" of biker boys .. i guess the answer is clear.
2006-06-16 10:03:38 · answer #9 · answered by SigmundS of Yew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of your kids well being and teach the pharmacist to be great in the sac.
2006-06-14 23:51:34 · answer #10 · answered by wizendwizard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋