this guy that i was messing around with told me him and his g/f were done so i was like ok then ur not cheating on here and know ones getting hurt well he told me we should b friends and i was like ok that works and we hung out today and he kissed me and of course i kissed him back well about 20 min ago im not for sure but i think his g/f called and i don't know what to do but she dosn't know me she's never heard of me cuz i jus got here to visit my cousin so he would have had to tell her right?
what do i do..
2006-06-14 16:45:57 · 23 answers · asked by katie_smith990 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i wouldnt worry about hes gf she not one of your friends you cant do notihng now he lied to you . plus why explain your self to some one you dont even know just avoid her phone calls and lus you and him are friends well kissing friends now lol dont want to ruin that but kick him in the nuts for lyin lol ;)
2006-06-14 16:50:31 · answer #1 · answered by yayo_upin_disbitch 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If this guy seems to still be hung up on the girl friend you have only one option. Move on or take what you can get.
If you like this guy and think you could get serious you must be sure of this even more. If he likes messing around with you but still cares for her he will tell you anything you want to hear.
Get it straight with him. Get it straight with yourself. If not you may bery well get hurt down the line.
2006-06-14 23:54:36 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was really finished with his girlfriend then he doesn't have to tell her anything. If he is with her and kissing on you then he doesn't have to tell her either. However, at least, you know what to expect from this guy in the future. Nothing. But dishonor. Otherwise, be happy with the way things are.
2006-06-14 23:49:53 · answer #3 · answered by will 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should sit him down and tell him that you is really still concerned.If he ask you why you should tell him that you think that he still have a girlfriend.OK so he has had the phone call and you think that its girlfriend,i know that you don't know for sure so you ask him again and he tells you and it seems like he's lying.If it seems like he;s lying then you should check into,and if he starts to get mad you should leave him alone.Well that's all i have to say and i hope mi answer helps you out allot because this is An tough situation.
2006-06-14 23:58:25 · answer #4 · answered by Donyelle A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your gut instinct. If you think it was his girlfriend, it probably was. If you want to be first choice in his life, I say leave him alone. But if you want to play second fiddle, then play along. At the end, however, you may get hurt. Patience is a virtue. So be patient and alway be first in someone's life!!!
2006-06-14 23:51:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to be with someone like that anyway. Let her have him. He's not worth your time. He probably told her because he gets off on having girls fight over him. Kick him to the curb and find a man worthy of your affections!
2006-06-14 23:50:07 · answer #6 · answered by Mia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make sure you keep your mouth shut. There is no commitment so there is no need for you to release any info. He told you he wanted to be friends, so respect the game. You want to be happily ever after get someone that respects you.
2006-06-14 23:50:27 · answer #7 · answered by Fundough 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's sending you mixed messages. I'm not with anyone, but we just need to be friends, but I am going to kiss you, but oops by girlfriend just called. He's a player sweetie. Walk away.
2006-06-14 23:50:40 · answer #8 · answered by adagia27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends dont kiss like you did gal! And are you satisfied as a replacement while they are fighting? Get him off! ( or off him, anything)
2006-06-14 23:50:55 · answer #9 · answered by bla_bla_bla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's one of the longest run-on sentences I've ever seen.......
Just because a man tells you he's single, doesn't mean he is. He could be telling you that just to get down your pants.
Verify it with his friends/family.
2006-06-14 23:48:55 · answer #10 · answered by Shep 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋