A question for the men, or ladies can answer in reverse roles.?

Question

If you met a girl who you thought was just gorgeous and had an amazing personality, would you try just about anything to be with her? what if she had a long term relationship would you try to break her up with her bf to make yourself happy?

This was kind of a hypothetical question, because I have been in similar twice, and the guy has always told me that he thinks I'm beautiful and my bf is very lucky and he respects our relationship... I was just wonder if all people are this respectful and really caring

Answer 1

If a woman is taken, she is off limits. It's just my way. Most men would try to steal her though. Then, in the long run, he doesn't get her and destroys her relationship with the guy she already had. Everybody gets hurt.

Answer 2

I am very torn on the answer to this question. The "moral" side of me says that it doesn't matter how great or fantastic or perfect this person is for me, he belongs to someone else, therefore isn't free for me to pursue. I imagine what it would be like to be in his wife's shoes. It isn't her fault that I would have developed feelings for her husband. Why should her life be turned upside down for my own happiness. It's such a selfish way to be. I would hope that if I were with or married to someone whom I loved very deeply, that whoever the "other woman" was would be kind enough to respect my marriage/relationship.

On the other hand, the side of me that wants what it wants and knows how hard it is to walk away from someone we love, there's always the "all's fair in love and war" mentality.

It's hard to sit and say that I would or wouldn't try to break up someone's relationship. I only prey I would have the strength to walk away from the person I desperately wanted for the sake of all involved.

Answer 3

Iono sometimes really amazing people can be very intimidating and can be hard to go and ask that person out. Now if the person was already taken it depends on the persons whos going after her. I myself would respect the relationship and try to keep my distance because I dont want to be the one to break up a happy relationship its hard to see myself like that. If the girl is really happy with the boyfriend then they wouldnt be the urge for a fling.

Answer 4

I would try almost anything as long as it didn't break my morals and as long as it wasn't perverse in nature for me (i.e drinking blood, becoming an atheist/worshipping satan). I wouldn't break anyone up however, because when you truly care about someone, it's more about their happiness than yours. Being in love means sacrificing. It would be wrong to break anyone up- would it make the person I'm in love with happy?

Answer 5

Looks like you got a few questions. First off I never get involved in with a women in an existing realtionship...dirty pool. However if single, of course. I would try just about anything accept change myself.

Answer 6

Have had almost an identical situation. The only difference was that she was not happy in her long term relationship[she told me]. But in the end I was not with her... hence the name angel.havegone!

Answer 7

If she's that great, who can break her relationship with her long term boyfriend? And if some boy can, then she's not really that wonderful after all.

Answer 8

I would never try to break their relationship...Yes I could be happy by having him but the question is, would he be happy with me if he is still inlove with that girl? I could never bear the thought when he is with me and yet his mind is somewhere else.

Answer 9

if I were single I might try to get with her. But I'm not going to break up a relationship because that tells me she would just as easily leave me.

Answer 10

Nope, because i honour the relationship staus. My boyfriend and i have been dating for 2 years and i would hurt anyone that tried that. As we have plans such as marriage and kids for the future.