ok my bf told me that he might be moving to west virginia which where i live isn't very far(all i gotta do is cross a bridge)but if he moves we won't going to the same school and i hate having long distance relationships!!!!!!!!!!!I mean i am really getting attached to this guy! i mean head over heels in love and knowing that hes going to move and not knowing when it hurts to know hes gonna leave me and one day i might not see him again.I mean when he leaves if he don't have a chance to tell me hes leavin what am i supposed to do?????
2006-06-14 16:15:58 · 30 answers · asked by kris 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by the way when i said all i have to do is croos a bridge that bridge is kinda far when you are walking can't drive yet 13!!!dont give a crap about your guys input on wheater is hould be dating him or somethin like that, jus tplease answer the question
2006-06-14 16:22:52 · update #1
excuse the other folks' rude answers. it sounds like you are very worried about this. do yourself a favor and relax. do you think maybe he's just telling you that to see if you'll tell him how much you care about him? or do you know for a fact his family may be planning to move there? could be just a head game, i don't k now you guys' ages. so many things we worry about never even happen, relax. if in fact he does move, and you find yourself with a broken heart, just try to keep really busy with your friends and family. if you two are meant to be together it will happen t hat way. and if not, you will fall in love with someone else and forget all about him if it'snot meant to be. good luck
2006-06-14 16:22:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It seems like theirs nothing you can do to prevent him from moving so I would just try to keep the long distance relationship. Think about it hes only across a bridge hes not that far from what you told us.
2006-06-14 23:20:05 · answer #2 · answered by HuniBuniBee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's sounds like u don't trust him to much. If u don't trust him, there is no way u can love him. So ask yourself "Do I really love this guy?" " Does he worth it to have a long distance relationship with?" Does he love me " if your answear is NO for any of this 3 questions, than girl rake up wiht him, u can find a better guy who u will be able to say YES to all the 3 questions.
Good luck !!!
2006-06-14 23:21:48 · answer #3 · answered by I smile when I feel like crying 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can just go visit him every day and hang out. You don't need to go to the same school. Being around eachother all the time is bad anyways. But if u really don't want this then u can just move on. I know easier said than done.
2006-06-14 23:23:55 · answer #4 · answered by citie_chick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, you need to take a deep breath. Then don't waste your energy worrying about something that hasn't happened yet. You said he "might" be moving and you "might" not get to see him before he leaves. If it actually happens, then talk to him.He's won't be too far right? Well if it's meant to last, it will. I married a guy who was 400 miles away from me....what meant to be will be. Be patient and communicate with him.
2006-06-14 23:18:56 · answer #5 · answered by Just wondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well usually people just don't pick up and leave in one single day. And if it is "just across the bridge" as you put it, then go see him.
Also make sure that he knows how you feel about him. Then he may be more inclined to stay in touch!
2006-06-14 23:18:43 · answer #6 · answered by jaredkbyrd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say how old you are. If he is still living with his family dear, you can't do a whole lot about it. Just write letters and make phone calls when you can. If it is meant to be it will last, whether you both go to the same school or not.
2006-06-14 23:20:06 · answer #7 · answered by Miss G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance? My fiance lives in Japan. All you have to do is cross a bridge, I have to cross an ocean. If you really love him, then you will cross the bridge. If you don't really love him, then let it go. If it's true love, it can survive anything.
2006-06-14 23:18:36 · answer #8 · answered by spudric13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All that crap is in your head, you can't see the future and you don't know what it will bring, live life one day at a time, you won't be able to make a reasonable plan if all you have is anxiety going through your mind. things will work out if they are suppose to.
2006-06-14 23:21:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He lives across the bridge. Visit him everyday. Being around him 24 hours isn't healthy.
2006-06-14 23:18:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋