Well.....you cant....its really hard cuz i went through the same thing....it sucked....I still love him but he has a new gf....but um......maybe if you back off and try to look for someone else he might come back plz just try it! it sumtimes works
2006-06-14 16:15:43
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answered by Cassandra D 2
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answered by ? 3
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i know you are probably nervous and anxiety is kicking
dont worry keep your emotions at bay. i suggest reading this book call "how to get ur lover back" the book teaches u how to create a love bond between people and that is the best way of making a relationship work jeolousy and manupilation will only last u a short period of time and u will find yourself in the same position. now i suggest for u to keep ur emotions at bay, continue loving him be there for him do it because u love him not because u r dependent on him. he may resist u and take u for granted but continue developing a love bond with him and when u see that u r being taken for granted make ur self less available i know its hard it was hard for me but u need to do it so he could realize what he has
good luck
2006-06-14 16:50:34
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answered by Anonymous
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Just continue to be yourself the more a person feels pushed or harrased the more they distance themselves from you give him space he will come around if its ment to be . Women seem to think that if we just let a man be he is going to leave give him some time he will come around believe me ive been there done that . You just occupy your time doing your thing and let him know if theres anything he wants to talk about your there for him and that you love him hope this helps (it helped me lol)
2006-06-14 16:31:33
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answered by Lola B 2
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Have you considered the fact that his love has matured? It is probably deeper than ever before, but his method of showing you may have changed. Remember, guys like ladies and prefer it when you go to extra lengths to look good for him (and yourself), treat yourself well so he will continue to see your physical beauty and the beauty of your inner self. Of course, your treatment of him has to be special as well. He needs to have his ego boosted when he's down, he needs to be nutured as you need to be nutured. He wants you to experience life with him (including his likes and your likes). He needs time alone with you, quiet time, time to reflect on his feelings for you and, at times, he needs time alone to reflect on you and his life as well. Love matures, it is not always all sparks and fireworks, but that does not mean he loves you less. Think about it.
2006-06-14 16:19:10
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answered by snddupree 5
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OKay I know you want guys opions but honey if he doesnt have the feelings he did have for u before then dont even bother.
2006-06-14 16:16:48
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answered by Jessy bear 2
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You can't make someone love you if they don't. You can't "make" somebody have feelings they no longer have. I'm sorry for your loss.
2006-06-14 16:14:42
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answered by carolscreation 4
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do what he likes you to do as before and be a better person than before!!!
2006-06-14 16:16:09
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answered by eltivo0210 3
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