is there a purpose.............?

Question

my life is basically meaningless now. the guy i like completely ignores me on AIM and the ther the guy that i like HAS A FREAKING GIRLFRIEND!!!!!!! and his girlfriend....is one of my really good friends! so my life has no meaning........i just want to cry..........what do i do?

Answer 1

Well be happy for your friend and forget about the guy your friend is dating. I know this is painful but you have no other option but to accept the situation. As far as the other guy who ignores you, ditch him! He's not worth your time if doesn't wannna talk to you. Believe me I wasted so much time on someone who ignored me for months! He only talked to me whenever he felt like it. So I got sick of it and finally ditched him, and I'm glad I did because now I found someone who I'm much happier with. So your guy will come, just have patience.

Answer 2

Been there, being a teen is sooooooooo hard, your hormones are totally out of whack, that makes you more emotional. Try to find a good church youth-group they have people that can help you through the rough years. Just to let you know everybody is on this earth for a reason, you may never find out what that is unless you really get down with Jesus, you will be surprised how your life will change when you stick with GOD.

Answer 3

lol i am in the same boat lol. But i would just find a new guy to get those other two guy out of your head. The next guy could be cuter and nicer then the two mentioned above then you will be a lucky girl. I Hope i find a cuter guy then the two that are being jerks to me. lol good luck and Go Girl Power lol.

Answer 4

Have you ever wondered about the reason of our existence? Have you ever wondered why we die, and where we go after death? What will happen to us in the end? Have you ever asked yourself why God made the earth and all that is in it under man’s dominion? Why were the night and the day, and the sun and the moon created? What are we supposed to do during our lifetime? Were we created just to eat, drink, and enjoy ourselves before we die? As one poet put it:
“I do not know whence I have come.
I saw my feet walking on the road.
As they please I go and stop.
What am I doing here?
How did the road find me?
I do not know! I do not know! I do not know! ”

God has emphasized in many verses of the Qur’an that He did not create us without purpose. He said: “What! Do you think that I created you simply in jest? And that you would not be returned to Me?” (23:115) He also said: “What! Does man think that he will be left to roam at his will?” (75:36) In addition, He said: “Do people think that they will be left to say: “We believe,” and they will not be held accountable?” (29:2)
Indeed, God Has created human beings for a purpose and with a purpose: TO WORSHIP HIM ALONE (Monotheism). He said: “I have not created the Jinn and humankind except only to worship Me. I don't require provision or feeding from them. Surely Allah is the All-provider, the Possessor of all strength, the Firm.” (51:56-58) In fact, all prophets told their people to worship God alone (Monotheism) and shun worshipping His creation (Paganism). God said: “I assuredly sent among every people a messenger with the command: Worship Allah and avoid worshipping false gods.” (16:36)
Prophet Abraham, for example, believed in One God, who had no partner. Anyone who holds a different understanding of God than this has contradicted the religion of Abraham and follows falsehood. God says in the Qur’an: “Those who reject the religion of Abraham make fools of themselves.” (2:130)
Prophet Jesus was reported in the Gospels to have said: “It is written: ‘Worship the Lord your God and serve Him only’.” (Luke 4:8)
Prophet Jacob also said (in the Qur'an) to his people: “Indeed, those which you worship besides Allah are only names that you and your forefathers have established, for which Allah has sent down no authority. The command belongs only to Allah. He has commanded that you worship none but Him. That is the right religion, but most people do not understand.” (12:40)
Read more about the TRUE BELIEVE which supported by the Miracle Holy Quran :
http://www.islam-guide.com/islam-guide.pdf

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Answer 5

start investing your life in other people that need help. It will take your mind off of yourself and refocus you. Besides you will meet a lot of great people and maybe a new b/f. As another answerer said there is more than 1 boy out there (and some that are cuter and nicer).

Answer 6

are you seriously that lost that you're pondering the purpose of your life because some little boy is ignoring you and another one has a girlfriend? incidentally, i don't know if the same rule still applies, but all women know, that you don't even fathom the thought of getting with a friend's man!

Answer 7

You think that your life sucks well my life is super Sukey....why? ..well the guy that i liked i had him for 2 classes and like when my friend told him that i liked him hes like i don't know who she is..........and like i was really mad and like i didn't know what to do so after class i screamed kicked the wall and then i cried yep i cried but since that day i said to myself whats the point of crying if its not going to make anything better

Answer 8

Do not waste your precious tears for those guys who do not care about you. Find a man who loves you for who you are and will love you more if you give him love in return. Cry when you find him in happiness.

Answer 9

find a different guy there are more than two in this world

Answer 10

Get him yo notice you somehow. and tey not to embarass yourself.
Join a club or start a program.
If nothing works...............flirt.