Is there chance?

Question

Hi, I hope you don't mind me asking this becuase it is probably like some others.
Well, there is this guy at school that I like and he knows I like him. He came up and said high to me first when I had never met him before and we talked, then we said hi and smiled at each other in the hallways at school and had short conversations every couple of days. Then one of my friends told him, in front of a group, that I like him and now all his friends know. After someone played a mean joke on me and said he liked me and wanted to go on a date, and I didn't know if it was true, that same friend asked him online if he liked me or not. He said he didn't, but that I was pretty. He still talks to me and we were starting to hang out more and talk but the school year ended.
I found out where he eats at lunch and made sure I went there as many days as I could after spending time with my friends at my lunch table eating and talking. Sometimes when I went over and talked to the group he hangs out with at lunch he wouldn't be there yet and a couple of times when he got there after me he stood next to me.
I may be imagining things but I also think he got a little quieter for a while when I first got to the group every day. Even though he didn't always say hi, niether did I, but it is a big group and you would have to talk across a few heads to say something he always smiled at me when he saw me.
I know for a fact that he usually left the school one way, but for the last month-1.5 months he went to the place that I left school and we talked for a little while. For a while after he found out that I liked him I did not initiate any conversations, I didn't know if he was one of those people who stop talking to someone who likes them. He still started coversations and I began starting them again too. He also jokes around a little with me and acts tough around his guy friends if I'm around, as far as I know anyway.
He plays trumpet and at a concert with an orchestra we are both in, after he knew I liked him and while I was still nervous about wether we would still be at least friends, he tapped me on the shoulder with his trumpet as he walked past and said hey, then stopped and we talked about another recent concert for a couple of minutes. Sometimes I think he is looking at me when i'm not looking, but I can't be sure, and after I got to know him a little better I started seeing more of him in the halls between classes, although I might have just started noticing him more than I used to. He's always nice around me and seems to actually listen to what I'm saying.
He is in a grade higher than me and I don't really know any of his friends and my friends don't know him well enough to ask him, and be 100% sure he is giving a true answer. I don't know if he told the one girl, who is younger than him and only knew him for a few months the truth, or if that even matters that she is younger(grade-wise) or not. I also don't know what his friends think of me and how that will effect his opinion, the ones that played the joke on me were seniors and are now gone, his friends that I know that are still at school are nice and they don't ignore me. His friends, and thye whole band, know my name, but that could be good or bad. I am kinda glad that he did not jump on the opportunity when he knew I liked him, becuase we hadn't known each other very long. I would like to know if you think he does or could like me if we get to know each other better. Sorry this was so long, but it is hard to be succinct trying to explain all of this. I think that's all, and Thanks again.

Answer 1

First off WOW that was very long :-)!! But I think you should just continue being friends with him and talking to him like you are now. I think you should just see where that leads. Because even if he doesn't like you he seems like a really nice person and a really nice friend. And it would be a shame to lose a good friend.

Answer 2

He may just be a little shy or embarrassed about what his friends would say. No offense to you, but you know how immature guys can be and he probably dosent want anyone teasing the two of you. If he had no interest in you, then he would ignore you completly. Also, you have to take into consideration if he lives his life by what the crowd wants, how happy can you two be if there is a chance???

Answer 3

I think he likes you because he wouldn't have talked to you if he doesn't like you, right? At the moment, you may not know each other well enough so it's better if you got to know more about each other first. First, try to be friends and talk to me whenever possible. You may want to ask him if he likes you or not. I'm sure he likes you as his friend. But you want to be more than just his friend right? You don't have to do anything. Just wait and see what he'd do.

Answer 4

way too much info , i stopped reading 1/2 way through, but i know enough to say back off, be natural let it happen on it's own... when i was in high school i went all crazy for a guy and made SURE we met in the halls, ate lunch 1-2 tables next to him....he ended up dating my sister for 5 year!!!

Answer 5

details are good look hon if he wants u then he needs to ask u. you should not go and chase a man. NEVER do that. wait until he comes to you. i would start looking at other options if i were you. maybe there is another guy that will tickle ur fancy. do not limit urself. u are so young. enjoy ur time now and forget him. it is going to be hard if u kep dwelling on him though. beleive me when i tell u there are so many fish in the sea when u are married he will just be something u laugh at. good luck

Answer 6

Yes very long question. From what I got from it, let this guy know you like him. Becuase if he doesnt know, and he too likes you but is shy nothing will ever come of it! Ask him on a date? Invite him to your house, and if he rejects or gives a stupid excuse then say okay, no need to be ashamed and now you know you can move on! :)

Answer 7

I think that he likes you but you guys are too caught up in what everyone else thinks. I think that you should make a move and ask him out. Sometimes if you wait too long, a good thing can go away. Good luck

Answer 8

Honestly, I can't read your whole question with all the rambling and grammatical errors.

My advice is, if you like him, let him know. The worst thing he could say to you is "no." And if he likes you, and you seem to think he does, you could have a great relationship.

Answer 9

Since your question was a book, I will keep my answer short and simple. Yes

Answer 10

ok you put a lot on there... just ask if he like you or not if he does not then move on... ps try not to put a lot as your qusetion next time....