well last year my bf went to the library before me and then when i entered i saw him sitting with two girls
one was holding his hand and i didnt recognise either of them at that time (one was his classmate while the other was the classmates friend----the one who was holding him was the classmates friend)so when i saw him i went and sat down beside my friend and waited for him to tell the girl to leave his hand but it never materialised
i then went outside and he came after me i asked him that who they were ? he lied and told me 2 diff names (i found out later)
i told him i didnt want him anymore but then he pleaded to me not to leave him.
he told me that she did that to make me jealous but i dont understand why.everytime i bring up this topic we fight.he is not talking to her.the problem is everytime i see that girl i wana kill her.i asked her why she did that and she said it was just a joke and i asked her why you want to joke with someone you hardly know.
m i wrong .i cant let it go
2006-06-14 16:01:05 · 5 answers · asked by d_vits 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he says when she held her hand then she said that just see what your gf does
he says it was sudden and he knew i would be hurt and thats why he didnt react quickly
the girl is two years older than him and iam his age now he is thinking of proposing me to marry him and this episode came in my mind.
thanks for reading and responding
2006-06-14 16:14:49 · update #1
also if i should let it go then how?
2006-06-15 09:01:27 · update #2
do u love him?
if u really love him and u want to be with him, let it go. unless this isnt the first time...thats a different story. male's brain chemicals cause them to be attracted to pretty girls, even if they r already in a relationship. so give him another chance if u really love him, otherwise, let him go. and if he does it again, definately let him go. he doesnt deserve you if he is going to act like that.
good luck!!
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2006-06-14 17:49:24 · answer #1 · answered by Joey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you are over reacting either he was really holding her hand witch is wrong or even if it was a joke from her he shouldnt have let it even happen, but if you still want to be with this guy then you have to let go of it and trust him because a relationship is all about trust.
2006-06-14 16:08:01 · answer #2 · answered by Natalie S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, sweetie. He is the one who is wrong. Why would he let her do that to you? If he knew it was to piss you off then why? You need to ask yourself if he's really worth it. If he knew that was the reason she did it, he wouldnt have done it if he really cared about you. He would have considered your feelings before anything. If I were you I would have broken up with him the day it happened. How do you know he's not talking to her anymore?
2006-06-14 16:08:03 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not wrong. It's not right to mess with people's emotions like that. You are not over reacting. You are human and you have feelings and they should respect your feelings.
2006-06-14 16:07:37 · answer #4 · answered by g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont like jokes like that. tell the joker to find himself a new crowd.
2006-06-14 16:09:41 · answer #5 · answered by baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋