We have a great time together, its already a long distance relationship, I live in Northridge and he lives up in the high desert, we see each other every weekend. He's been out of work for a couple of months and cant find anything. His friend offered him a job up near San Francisco, he left a few days ago for the interview and I havent heard anything from him, he didnt even call to let me know he made it ok. He called his mom to let her know. He hasnt called anyone to let them know about the interview or if he got the job. I'll be glad if he gets the job but sad because who knows when I will see him again, I like him alot and want to make this work if he stays up there. What should I do?
2006-06-14 15:40:18 · 4 answers · asked by evie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's really up to you two whether it works or not. It's up to you to make it work. All you need is both people's cooperation. If he's not willing to be with anyone else right now, then make sure you see eachother at least every other weekend. I don't know forsure how far away you two are right now. But don't expect him to drive to see you, meet him half way or drive to see him sometimes too.
2006-06-14 15:44:17 · answer #1 · answered by goshimwaycool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I had a long-distance relationship for 3 years. We were both in different grad schools, her in New York and me in San Francisco. We took turns flying on long weekends,etc. called each other all the time. Whatever it took. We weren't married at the time, but had been going out for 3 years.
Basically, you have to assess your own situation. How much longer are you going to be in Northridge? Are you really that committed to each other? Get everything out in the open, so that if he isn't willing to commit, then you can both move on. LDR's are hard in even the most committed relationships.
2006-06-14 17:07:30 · answer #2 · answered by Lhordaxes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-30 22:17:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same situation. I'm just waiting... I'm just gonna wait to see what he wants. I hope it all works out for you. Good luck...
2006-06-14 15:46:28 · answer #4 · answered by Manda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋