We met at work and dated 6 or 7 times over a 9 week period before we became bf/gf 2 wks ago. Last week I went to his house and had sex with him whenever he wanted it a few times but now he's been blowing me off by saying he's sleepy. I have been patient and understanding and let him know I am available. I believe he was honestly worn out. No probs there. But today, while at work I saw out of the corner of my eye he had his arm around a coworker. He was obviously comforting this needy [b]itch. But then he put his fingers in her hair and gave her a scalp massage!! AT WORK!! IN FRONT OF ME!! (he may not have known that I was within eyesight) We are careful to not let on at work that we have a relationship outside of work and we don't touch eachother. But he was massaging her head and I haven't been able to so much as touch him all week!! We are supposed to have a date tomorrow and go out to dinner and stuff. I don't want to sever the relationship I just don't want him to do it again.
2006-06-14 15:39:20 · 4 answers · asked by icu812 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off not to sound mean or anything but you need to lose this guy. Guys should never feel like their women is smothering them. If he is blowing you off he might not be into you anymore. saying this, don't think there is anything wrong with you. it's not you it's him. He feels like he needs to be with someone else. So he is blowing you off. You can tell by the signs of him not touching you and the affection that you are not getting from him. Especially him touching another girl at work should definitely give you a sign that he is not worth it. My advice lose him. He will be missing in the end it always happens.
2006-06-16 10:02:47 · answer #1 · answered by fnurse2 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sorry if I sound mean but he's done with you. He's moving on to the next thing. Just like he got you, he's geting someone else. Are you sure your his gf? A real man will never disrespect his woman like that. Maybe you seing him do this is the best thing for you. He may not be the right man for you...
Good Luck!
2006-06-14 15:45:52 · answer #2 · answered by Due Dec23rd...It's a GIRL! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From all appearances, he has ALREADY moved on, and you need to do the same. I know it hurts, but what other choice do you have? He is flirting with her right there in your face, so to speak....that's bad! Cancel the date for tomorrow night, and go out with friends instead. Maybe you will meet a REAL guy there. Good Luck!
2006-06-14 15:51:00 · answer #3 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are always available for him, that made him get tired of you?! Forget him,, move on..he's done with you! sorry
2006-06-14 15:51:03 · answer #4 · answered by CuteGirl_36_24_36 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋