life hell on earth. I had to move out at 16 going from friend house to house-i almost didn't graduate high school because of him. I didnt talk to him for many years cause of this but my pastor at church told me to forgive him and when I did he started to try and abuse me again until I called the police, now my mom is telling me to forgive him. this is bullshit and I cant keep on accepting this kind of **** in my life. Recently, he called my phone and called me an evil biatch for no reason. I wish he were never born and I had to deal with him. he has the nerve to call me this name & what gives him this right when he beat his wife when she was 8 months pregnant & kicked her in the stomach and beat her 8 yr old son black and blue. I hate his *** and wish people like that didn't walk this earth. why the hell do people people minimize his crimes. what do u think i should do about him?
2006-06-14 15:34:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that is so sad i mean siblings fight but not like that. u r not crazy but maybe u should seek a psychiatrist just to talk things through. u and his wife should gather all the police reports and papers and take his *** to court. no one should be so brutal and do that i am so glad u want to get back at him. he has done too much to forgive him now un hu u need to get him locked up!
2006-06-14 15:41:50 · answer #1 · answered by Ashleyy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, stay away from him. How old are you now? I fear your brother might kill someone someday. He has alot of pent up anger.
You have had a hard time of it. If you have relatives in another state, why not see if they will put you up for a few weeks, until you can get a job and save some money. Dont let this young man control your life - - take control. Make something of yourself. In other words, be a normal positive force in the world. Leave him and his troubles behind. Don't worry about your Mom. She will be fine. If you cant get away, stay as out of touch as much as you can. The world is full of his kind, but it's fuller of the better kind. Seek those whom you would like to be like.
2006-06-14 22:47:26 · answer #2 · answered by deborah m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm not sure of your age now, but if you graduated that means you are over 18, I'm also not sure what your financial status is but you should be old enough now to make a way for yourself. You don't have to accept abuse from him or anyone. It sounds like your brother has some serious anger issues, it also sounds like your mother was not very supportive of your ordeal. I would distance myself from him. Just because he is your brother does not mean you are obligated to be around for his abuse. I believe that you can forgive him for what he has done to you but that doesn't mean you have to be in the path of his destructive behavior.
2006-06-14 23:38:04 · answer #3 · answered by SweetSatinDoll47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has been trying to hurt you years ago and still being a beotch, I think you should **** him up. I know I would. If I had a sister I would not push my sister off the stairs. He is the evil one. Move on but dont let your guard down to him. Dont let anyone tell you that you should forgive him because he is still trying to **** you over. You'll get through it. He wont always be here on earth to hurt you. Dont worry. Dont let him get the best of you. Time will take care of the ******. People who are evil will not prosper. Trust me. God Bless and take care.
2006-06-14 22:44:59 · answer #4 · answered by Diabla 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Man this is difficult! I love my sisters to death so it would be easy for me to say forgive him,but in your case I would say that there is no forgiveness. The best thing for you to do is to stay as far way from him as possible.[change your number...unlisted] Maybe you could get in touch with his wife and you both can try to make a case against him...to protect you, his wife, the child and others that may be abused by him. Hope this gives you a bit of courage
2006-06-14 22:46:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs anger management. You do what you have to do to stay clear of him. If his wife was my sister I would kick his a**
till hes out.
2006-06-14 22:41:24 · answer #6 · answered by thresher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously call the police when you have proof and have him put away, nobody should ever let stuff like that go on...... :( sorry to hear your story....... hope everything turns out good
2006-06-14 22:41:03 · answer #7 · answered by BASKETBALL_playHer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to forgive him and move on with your life , be somewhere else stay away from thoes who don't have your best interrest at hand
2006-06-14 22:40:09 · answer #8 · answered by wilco254 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone, call the cops, and distance yourself from the family
2006-06-14 22:52:34 · answer #9 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-06-14 22:41:37 · answer #10 · answered by hankook 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋