I am 5'6 and weight 128 lbs. And I feel fat but my friend which has more meat on her is getting all the boys! What should I do over eat! (Which most the time doesn't work cauz i exercise A LOT!) Pratically the only thing that is fat on me is my thighs and butt (Yes i have a fat butt!!!) But my friend has "big boobs" (but she puts them on bigger than they are they are only 2 inches bigger than mine) Could it be my hair she has really long hair! Or could it be that I dont scream if i see a bug? (I like to hold worms!) Or could it be plain cause i am ugly?
2006-06-14 15:27:09 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everytime I get my self-esteem up my friend tell me to get over my self and keeps tearing me down. I am so more out going and she is just there like duh tell me when to say something! Plus she ALWAYS has to be right! If she isnt right she will not talk to the person who proved her wrong!
2006-06-14 15:39:59 · update #1
My hair is to the middle of my back her hair to the tip of her butt, IM me to see my pic
2006-06-15 11:43:14 · update #2
First, fat distributes differently for everyone.
Mine goes the same place yours goes, and I have a very small chest. I'm also thin and men are attarcted to me regardless.
I believe tehir are many tastes out there, you're not ugly, you'll see someone look your way and not your friends. It happens.
Be glad you've got a great height and some guts to hold worms. Girls that scream at bugs get on my nerves :)
2006-06-14 15:32:17 · answer #1 · answered by fiestygirl 3 · 13⤊ 6⤋
Well my goodness, you have a serious inferiority complex. Guys like ladies for different reasons just as ladies like guys for different reasons. Don't over eat, don't worry about someone having bigger boobs, the hair or any of that, there will always be someone who has something bigger, and better, the key to success is to work with what you have, and make it work to YOUR advantage. When you exude self confidence, people notice that. So in other words....BE YOURSELF!!!
2006-06-14 22:38:28 · answer #2 · answered by SweetSatinDoll47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your worrying too much on what your friend has and you don't for someone five six and a hundred and twenty eight pounds your not fat people who are fat would trade places with you in a second. a nice booty and some thick thighs is not a bad thing at all it sounds like you have a bit of a self esteem issue the'res nothing wrong with you its all in your head. maybe your friend puts her self out there like that and men approach women who show off but you might have too much class for that.
2006-06-14 22:37:18 · answer #3 · answered by cutie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In white american culture, you can never be too rich or too skinny. At 128, you are only 2lbs below your ideal body weight, so you are not too thin. Why don't you post a picture of yourself so we can all decide if you boobs are adequate, your hair is long enough and your worm-holding is not feminine enough.
Incidentally, you should know that nearly any woman can have nearly any man simply by informing him that she is "just dying" to try oral sex.
2006-06-14 22:33:54 · answer #4 · answered by scott m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, work on your insecurity about yourself. I'm not trying to be mean or anything, but you seem to lack in this area because you are asking this question. Build your self esteem up as well as your confidence and see who's getting more attention, AND dates after that. Stop worrying about other women. I really wouldn't think about gaining weight, don't worry, that will come naturally as you get older. Work on the interior, the exterior seems fine.
2006-06-14 22:31:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without seeing what you look like I can't tell you the exact reason. In general I look at a girl's face to see if I find her attractive. A lot of guys (including me) also like girls with long hair more, so that could also be a factor. To me if she's a little skinny or heavy it doesn't really affect my opinion of her. I think it matters more if you have something in common with the boys you're trying to get.
2006-06-14 22:33:25 · answer #6 · answered by Tommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
you dont need to have extra meat on you to attract the people. the beauty lies inside the person and you dont need to have external beauty. the explaination about yourself which you have written in your question really explains that you already is a beautiful and attractive girl. If you cannot attract others with your external beauty then try to gain it through your internal beauty. where is your prince is concerned, there is no body in the world who is made without a pair but what you require now is the patience and you just have wait to click right for the right person. Take care and i just wanted to request you for your pic if possible.
2006-06-14 22:39:53 · answer #7 · answered by ayub b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, you're at a healthy weight, and I'm sure you're over-reacting about other "features"!
Every guy is attracted to different qualities. The best thing you can do is just be yourself and not be preoccupied by things like that. If you allow yourself to worry, it will show. Trust me. Sooner or later you'll meet the right person that finds everything about you perfect...
2006-06-14 22:39:04 · answer #8 · answered by SirCharles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your looks are just fine. If your happy then nothing to worry about. It does not matter what anybody else tells you how you should look like or want you to look like. If you happy, then everybody else will deal. You are drop dead gorgeous and crazy ugly at the same time. It all depends on who you ask. There will always be somebody who'll give you some kinda answer. What you should do is find out from yourself, are you happy with you. You WILL find somebody who'll thing your the best thing in their life, without wanting to change you. Only you should change you if you want, not because somebody else wants. If you do, you'll be forever changing to the whim of everybody around you. That gets expensive and tiresome. Be happy with you and then worry about finding somebody else who's happy with the way you look. Besides, looks change. If you always go for looks, you'll be ever dissapointed. Go for what's in they're heart and head. If you like/love them for who they are, what they believe in, you're much more likely to be happy for years to come. Just my 2 cents.
2006-06-14 22:36:49 · answer #9 · answered by mr_snegal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! Be yourself and you will do fine. You have to like yourself first anyway. Look in the mirror and be honest. Improve only in the quality of the person your are. Importance of the hair, boobs and butts all vary from one guy to the next. Sounds like your are a looker!!!! And guys like girls who are not afraid to step on a bug!
2006-06-14 22:34:12 · answer #10 · answered by michael g 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not bad i'm 5'5 and i weigh 110 and guys jump at the site of me (no need to brag) but no u dont seem ugly dont worry about it they will come in time! How old r u anyways? Cause i have pretty big boobs for my size and a small butt and i'm 14
2006-06-14 22:33:21 · answer #11 · answered by sports chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋