there is this guy i've had questions about before on here but this one's important. i really like him and he seems interested in me so i need to know what to do. my friend told me to call him and ask him out but my other friend said that would be desperate. we flirted a lot during the school year and he's hugged me but he hasn't asked me out so i wanta ask him out. he is really nice, smart, funny, and really cute so i need to know how to do this right. if i do call him i wouldnt know what to say and i tried calling him today but couldnt because i was so nervous he will say no. also im only 12 but i am mature and am ready to have a boyfriend and he is a really great guy. and i really dont want stupid answers that people leave just to get 2 whole points. the first mature answer that satisfys me and answers my question appropriately will get 10 points. have fun and think hard ! but please help me
2006-06-14 15:26:54 · 10 answers · asked by Ashleyy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also do u think 12 is too young
2006-06-14 15:31:15 · update #1
great answers everyone u guys r so helpful i guess i'll call him buut it's 9:36 pm and i think i should wait till tom. keep answering!
2006-06-14 15:36:54 · update #2
sweety... talkin as a mother of a 12 year old girl... your young... you only live once... if you want this guy to really know you dig him... call him... its just a phone call... and if nothing else... you could learn just how much he digs you! have fun, be young celebrate being you!!! thats part of what summer is all about
2006-06-14 15:30:58 · answer #1 · answered by prettyinternetgirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok Girl, CALL HIM you wont be desperate. It will show him that you are interested in him more and guys love that. im 26 hun and have been down that road lol . Thats a good thing that you are already comfotable around him. Ask him if he wants to go bowling to the beach or movies. Hmm dont know what you like to do . Be careful and take a chance girl. goodluck :)
2006-06-14 15:33:14 · answer #2 · answered by dakotas_dream04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take it slow right now and see what develops into. You do not want to rush into something that you or him are not ready for. It's best to be friends on real good terms first before you are intimate. The guy you like may one day surprise you one day. He may be just checking you out right now to see if you are like the other girls and giving up the goods easily or if you are patient. Remember, patience is a virtue and that goods things come those who wait.
2006-06-14 15:47:24 · answer #3 · answered by babygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think u would seem desparate if you dont call him alot or anything like that. Asking him out is ok. He has to know you like him right? Maybe mention going and hanging out and he should get the right idea. That's my problem is I seem desparate and call or text too much. The next girl I meet I wont do that and then she will want me so bad she cant stand it...right???
2006-06-14 15:32:58 · answer #4 · answered by Lookinstr8over 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First read ( SMART LOVE by Dr. Phil McGraw)
In it he has all sorts of suggestions for attracting a man's atention. while you may like him if he is not willing to persue you is he really worth your time?
second. while he may be all the things you like and think you want in a mate. have you asked him quality questions to filter out lies, or immaturity inorder to find MR RIGHT?
God Bless
2006-06-14 15:31:16 · answer #5 · answered by Sully 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him, don't sit around anxious, call him and you'll know why he didn't call. But don't ask him that, because he''ll think that you're clingy.
2006-06-14 15:29:15 · answer #6 · answered by Honey83 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him
2006-06-14 15:41:28 · answer #7 · answered by Leonardo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him
2006-06-14 15:30:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him come to you
2006-06-14 15:30:57 · answer #9 · answered by weatherkari 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-14 15:30:05 · answer #10 · answered by Gabby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋