Ok I also did some thing them would have been small to most but for me I would have pissed my self-doing it.
Anyhow, I was walking to this pizza place lunch during my break and there was a bank type place a few windows before the pizza place. In there, there was a woman maybe 2 or 3 years older than I was and I am 20. Very pretty women. Anyhow, I had the urge to go in there and pretty much say, "Hello, I just came in to say you’re a very beautiful women" and then walk out. I am a shy guy so no way in hell would I have done that with out like I said pissing my self. Anyhow, what I want to know from you women is how might that woman have taken my complement? Take in part I am an ugly guy and vary shy and not very confident. Tell me what may have been possible from my almost done action. Should I have done my idea?
2006-06-14 15:23:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would have been very flattered! You arent going to get anywhere in life without taking risks. However since i am not her I might have been embarrased or upset since I was at work. But you'll never know now will you?
2006-06-14 15:26:48 · answer #1 · answered by brandijolove 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I cannot answer for other women, but if I had been the woman, it would have made my day! It does not matter how good looking a guy is, if he has the guts to come up to me and say "Hey, I saw you through the window just now, and felt compelled to tell you that I think you are beautiful." Wow! I could go for weeks on a compliment like that! And even if she had just blown you off, at least you would have been expressing something that was inside of you. It wasn't intended as anything more than a complement, so next time, maybe you should give it a try! :0)
2006-06-14 22:34:20 · answer #2 · answered by poetess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was very good that u didn't do that. u would have looked ridiculous. if they were polite they would have just said thank u but after u left they would have said what a dork. it is better to keep your tongue to yourself. and if u want a girl try to become a friend with a girl first. then if she will be stricken by your wonderful personality(if u have any) she would definitely not mind that u re ugly. good luck. u did right that u didn't say anything to those women
2006-06-14 22:32:26 · answer #3 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No... you shouldn't have done. It's often enough to just appreciate beauty when you see it, quietly and to yourself. I'm sure that woman knows she's pretty. You had no reason to tell her. That's one of those impulses 20 yr olds learn to control... hopefully by the time they are 21 and a half.
What was possible is that she might have called security.
2006-06-14 22:30:03 · answer #4 · answered by antiquator 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a decent compliment, and if you don't drool or look shifty you would probably get a positive response. Though it's hard to say with some "very beautiful women." Some of them are just stuck up.
2006-06-14 22:35:16 · answer #5 · answered by ladybugewa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! Every woman loves a compliment, for you to walk into a place just to tell her she is beautiful..WOW. Very romantic and very sweet. Ugly is just a state of mind, apparently you are beautiful just for wondering. She would have been impressed. I say go for it next time.
2006-06-14 22:31:33 · answer #6 · answered by Steffy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you my old boyfriend? Actually, a guy did that to me and he gave me the creeps doing that. Then after a few attempts I gave in and went out with him, big mistake!!! He was very creepy! Maybe if you just kept it to that statement and walked away it would be ok, but nothing more after that. You need to build up your confidence, you can't be that bad.
2006-06-14 22:29:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally, if some random guy said that to me, i would have thought it was the sweetest thing in the world. wouldn't have mattered about looks then, cuz the personality is what matters. i think it's even sweeter when a shy guy says that because u know he means it. if a guy'd said that to me and then introduced himself, i would like ending up going out with him. shy can be pretty sweet. i'll bet ur not as 'ugly' as u say, anyways. u sound really sweet, honey, go for it next time!
2006-06-14 22:31:36 · answer #8 · answered by hockeychickstagecrew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldve deffinetly done it! a woman isnt gonna take it the wrong way or anything unless you come at her the wrong way she might think ur a perv! but most likely NOT! women like confident men so just try to be or at least act more confident! its a turn on!
2006-06-14 22:29:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, It would of taken the women by surprise. She would of probably been pleased by the comment plus bank work is stressful would of proably made her day. She probably would of wondered who in the heck was that. lol You should of you would be surprised you might get an answer.
2006-06-14 22:29:12 · answer #10 · answered by dakotas_dream04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sure this girl thought you were really sweet and took as a nice compliment, im sure you made her day unless she was a *****..if you ever do go back in there and see her you should tell her sorry if you caught her off guard but you couldnt help telling her that she was beautiful and then go about with whatever you were in there for-- if it was me i would smile and say thank you and tell you you are sweet
2006-06-14 22:32:59 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋