Girls only. What is NOT wanted in a guy?

Question

Please tell me ALL the things that a girl DOES NOT WANT IN A GUY. All the things that if a guy did NOT do, or ways NOT to be, that would then make him a good catch. These include mental, social and physical traits; also money, friends, family and WHATVER ELSE a guy should NOT be. This is very important for me to know. I appreciate your advice.

Answer 1

Wow, big question! Obviously, we want a guy to be mentally sound; no multiple personalities or uncontrolled depression, manic rage, etc. Socially we want a guy with his own friends, but they'd better be nice people who are not going to be rude to us or make sexual comments to our man in front of us. Also, a guy has to try and get along with our friends and act toward them in a way that we'd leave him alone with one of our friends and never think twice if "something could happen." He'd also better be able to show human kindness and be friendly to people he doesn't know and not surly and mean. Physically, most things really don't matter; gross teeth are about the only thing that sends me running. Obviously, have a clean body and clean clothes. A guy who smells good has already half won over a girl he likes. There are guys I would never date in 1,000 years, but they smell good so I will be close to them and let them put their arm around me and stuff. Money doesn't matter as long as he's working and has a steady income; nobody likes supporting a loafing bum. Friends I already covered. Family-wise, a guy shouldn't let his relatives walk all over him or make unreasonable demands of him, and he should make it clear that his girlfriend deserves respect from them. Being a Momma's boy makes all girls run the other way. Basically, don't be a jerk and don't hang around jerks, don't be greasy or smelly, and don't be whacko, and you're golden.

Answer 2

Most of all i would not want a guy that i could not trust... as there isnt a relationship without trust. I wouldnt want him to be controlling either, or violent or aggressive. I would prefer him to have a good family, although i dont think that fairly this is a true reflection on himself (as my family are awful!!)

If he didnt have good morals or beliefs then this is also something that would conflict with me. If he had a short fuse, or a quick fire temper, then i wouldnt feel comfortable with him.

He doenst have to be perfect, but he has to be secure and confident in himself. (or try to be, noones perfect!!) Money isnt really an importance to me, so it wouldnt matter to me how much of it (or how little of it) he had.

Most of all i would like to love him-if he wasnt able to love or trust me, then i dont think there would a point to the relationship!

xx

Answer 3

The running list of things I am avoiding is as follows;

Any guy that is over 21 and with out a ride, cell phone.

A family man who only seems to care about his family.

Men who can only seem to work, and remain in "work mode" 24-7

Addicts to drugs/ weird fetishes, killers, and liars.

Which would be a good reason why I'm only dating a CEO, and cannot seem to jump ship or swim too far... Hmmmm

Answer 4

Its hard and horrible when a guy decides to make a woman work to pay 1/2 or more of the bills and still expect them to act like a full time housewife..
I am in that situation and its hard o be both full time employee and full time housewife.. I want o go back and go to college..
So this is what I hate

Answer 5

Superficial.
Talks about himself a lot.
Doesn't ask you about your interests.
Too neat--spends a lot of time grooming.
Talks more than listens.
His idea of a great evening with you is watching sports on TV or going to a sports bar.
Doesn't try to like or doesn't want to meet your friends or family.
Takes a lot of chances when driving with you--speeding, braking suddenly, making sharp turns too quickly.

Answer 6

You do not want jealousy. It sucks. My husband is jealous and if I even look at another guy he thinks I want to jump into bed with them. You want them to have self-confidence.Not to be a mama's boy either. Good God, unfortunately I speak from experience.You want someone who trusts you,believes in you, wants to be with you NOT needs to be with you. He should be considerate,and a true gentleman.The trouble with guys today is that they are not gentlemen. They act as if women are objects and not their partners. It is a shame. My dad treats my mom wonderfully. They have their moments but he is always a gentleman and loves her deeply.Good luck.

Answer 7

slacker job wise needs to call first works out does not get mad about guys attention toward them needs to take care of her before he gets off needs to work out respect no cutting them down have some morals church would be good. good hair waxed body hair and goals are great money is great but a plain hard worker is fine smile and laugh good luck were so picky

Answer 8

Bad temper,abusive
Non supportive financially and mentally
Avoids family members
Instigates family arguments
Disrespectful to me or others
Egotistical
Bad hygiene
Cussing too much
Sloppy in general
Selfish
No common sense or intelligence
Displays bad habits in public

Answer 9

i dint like guys who think too highly of themselves
i hate people specially some 1 you like or a friend family etc. to lie and make fun of you in front of every 1. you should look nice.

Answer 10

Don't lie, Don't cheat, Be sensitive but not so sensitive to where you act like a punk, make sure you always listen and be supportive.