How do I know if she likes me and should I ask her out?

Question

There is a girl in one of my classes I like a lot. I don't know if she knows that I do but she might have a feeling. I know her a little and she knows me a little. We talk sometimes in class but not a whole lot. She does ask me questions and she seems to feel comfortable talking to me. Whenever I talk to someone else, she will look at me most of the time. Also, whenever someone else calls my name or will talk to me, she will look at me. There is only a few days left of school so I need a response as soon as possible. Should I get her screen name, number, ask her out, tell her I like her or do nothing? Thanks.

I don't know why, but I have a little tiny feeling that she might like me also. But I could be wrong. Usually, she will start the conversation or she will overhear something I say and then talk about that. I am afraid to ask her because I don't know what her response would be and how she would take it. I would still want to just be friends with her even if she rejects me.

I'm surprised about this but she's not a popular girl that most guys would want to get. From what I see, she's pretty quiet and doesn't really talk to that many guys. My problem is that I don't know what to say to her. Also, wouldn't it look funny if I just start talking to her a lot more than I usually do out of nowhere?

Answer 1

i'd go for it...what do you have to lose? sounds like she's interested

Answer 2

Life is too short. If you don't do anything you will regret it later. Just casually start talking to her more and ask a lot of questions about her. Show that you are interested. Find out what things you have in common and then casually ask her if she wants to hang out some time, movie, coffee, etc. Just be yourself and be honest. Don't put alot of pressure on yourself. She's a person too. If she is asking you questions and feels comfortable around you, that should be a sign she is interested in you. If you guys don't hit it off, at least you can be friends. Better than nothing at all.

Answer 3

Write a lot less, stop asking all the wrong people, and be a man...if you are old enough to date, you are old enough to feel the bitter sting of rejection. Get used to it, it will happen often, OR it won't happen at all...but you are not going to know if you don't ask. Grow up and act like a man. Ask her yourself. Have a plan, ask for a specific time, for a specific thing. What's the worst that can happen???she says no??? big deal. Hasn't anyone ever said no to you before....it doesn't hurt as much as you think it will.

Answer 4

Write her a love note or a poem. You can even make it a funny joke but in the note let her know you find her interesting and that you wonder if she feels the same. Most important, offer to take her out, your treat. Make sure you flatter her. Women love being told that they're beautiful. This way if she isn't interested, she will deal you a soft blow for the sheer fact that she's flattered. If she is interested you will have her smileing and blushing for days! She will be like putty in your hands :)

Answer 5

Someone already said this but it's so true, it's in her eyes. When a girl talks to a guy she really likes, her eyes will have a certain look about them. She's probably so hoping you'll ask her out. It's hard but I think it'll be harder if you don't ask her and she gets away. Good Luck!!!!

Answer 6

For Pete's sake....ask her out. By that, I mean ask her out. No one ever became a social outcast by being turned down by a pretty girl, but there are lots of guys who spent Saturday night at home wondering what the pretty girl was like to talk to....THOSE are the real losers

Answer 7

I had NO idea that boys have these feelings!!! You have opened my eyes. Sounds as tho she likes you. Let her know that you are interested in continuing your friendship when school is over. Hopefully, she will respond to this statement. If she gets all shy, that is actually a good sign. Proceed....let her know that you like her. I wish you the BEST of luck.

Answer 8

If she really is a nice girl she will except you. Besides what have you got to lose? She'll probably except you anyways. And yes you should get her screen name, number, ask her out, and tell her you like her. Express your feelings maybe she'll feel the same. GOOD LUCK♥

Answer 9

Yes, you already have her attention. There's a very good chance she will go out with you. Even if she does turn you down, she will be thinking about you and possibly considering asking you out later.

Answer 10

ask her there is nothing wrong with asking a question. You will never know untill you ask! My opinion is you should get to know her more before you pursue her try to get to know her on a deeper level.

Answer 11

ask her b/c truthfully she probably does b/c i was goin through the same thing before school was out here go for it and get her number or screen name if u want it will suprise her if out of the blue u called or im'd her go ahead and ask her and if she says no she's not worth it but if wat u typed in ur question she probably does and if she don't theres more fish in the sea and u're probably better off.........good luck!!!!!!........ :)