2006-06-14 15:00:11 · 22 answers · asked by John H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you can't spell it, don't do it!
Seriously, don't let those butterflies get the best of you. It's a different world out there when you are an adult with bills and a job. Try standing on your own two feet before you try taking care of two people. I promise you that high school HAS NOT prepared you for the real world in any way. Life is hard, marriage is harder.
2006-06-14 15:02:21 · answer #1 · answered by Ready2Go 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really should re-think what you are considering doing. First you are way too young to be getting married. I don't know why kids think its just so easy to get married because they think they've found the right girl. You haven't even experienced life yet, what makes you think you've found the right girl. Enjoy life, have fun and learn about the things you want in life before you set yourself up for a life time commitment like that. Marriage, sadly enough is taken too lightly by people now days. If the two of you really (think) you love each other, enjoy life together and see how things go. As we get older sometimes we tend to have different goals in life and begin to find ourselves seperating from our lover/spouse. If its true love, the feelings you have towards each other will not change, and may get stronger through time. But don't be a statistic, let it blossom and see what happens. Don't rush into something this important when you haven't even given yourself a chance to experience life first. In the end, you will both be thankful that you waited for the right time. Good luck to you both.
2006-06-14 22:08:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard to say, i know plenty of ppl who have married early which didnt last. if you want it to last you have to take a serious thot about all the problems you know you will encounter n all the ones that could arise, take a serious thot as to the degree of emotionl, financial n ne other kind of stress that may arise from that n sit back n ask ur self if you are really ready to deal with til death do us part.
i have never been married but ive put my self in situations n treated it like a marriage. the best thing to do is to grow up a lil more. make a life for your self. get an education. get a decent job, get yourself n2 a position so you can provide for yourself and a family. i wouldnt send back ne of the children i have now but my life would have been so much easier if i had taken a lil more pride n myself. if i had put my self into a position when i was younger so that i was not depending on someone else i would not now be single mother of four children n a full time college student.
whatever you choose, may you live long n prosper...
2006-06-14 22:11:39 · answer #3 · answered by mommaslosthermind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say give it a little more time. Are the two of you going to college? If so that could put strain on the realtionship and then really test your love for eachother. Marriage is a big responsibility and jumping in to fast can be a disaster. See how both of you feel in another year or two after being out of high school and doing your own things for awhile. Not saying break up or anything just get out and experience life for awhile.
2006-06-14 22:07:16 · answer #4 · answered by Nicole M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is to early. Don't you want to go to college before you tie the knot and start a family? Does she? Don't do it if their are any doubts that in the future you will regret it for any reason. You have a long life ahead of you. Most marriages that start at the end of highschool don't last anyways.
2006-06-14 22:05:50 · answer #5 · answered by tricksy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are both 18 and you know what marriage means then no, it's not too early. Just make sure both of you understand what marriage means - it means that you are committing your lives to each other and vowing to be together forever. If you do decide to get married you should go to couples counseling before you get married - so you both fully understand what you are doing.
2006-06-14 22:03:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, if you have to ask, then it probably is. Also, I think it's better to get a career path started before settling in to a marriage. That's a really huge responsibility to undertake so quickly. I would suggest you give it a whole lot of thought before doing anything.
2006-06-14 22:04:12 · answer #7 · answered by SweetSatinDoll47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got married at 18 and we divorced 10 years and two children later. Wait until you really grow up and are finished with college, if you are going ,and have a career going. If it is really meant to be then you two can wait.Good luck.
2006-06-14 22:05:48 · answer #8 · answered by Valerie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it... she will answer yes or no..... and no its not to early if she thinks and feels the same way you do.. now I would consider talking with her father and mother to see what their reaction would be first after all they are the biggest influence on their child. So get the fathers blessing before you do it.. he will respect you more and will be surpised as she if you ask him first...... advice never hurts from your future in laws ...... I believe he will also think more highly of you if you talk to him first about.
2006-06-14 22:05:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!!! it iz waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too early!! wait until ur @ least 20 or 22 thaz when my man purposed!!
2006-06-14 22:08:03 · answer #10 · answered by li'l chik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋