I've never had a girl, and am still a virgin, what's wrong with me?

Question

I'm a twenty-one year old, with blonde hair, hazel eyes, six foot two inches, and 245lbs. I've never had a date, or even been with a woman intimately. I'm not deformed, or handicaped, or hideous. I'm very nice, social, and polite. I just don't understand why a woman won't date me, let alone allow me to talk to her for very long without making me look like an idiot. I'm not retarded or anything, I'm a little wacky, I just don't get it. Why can't I get a girlfriend?

I'm being honest, I'm not trying to solicite.

I'M NOT A ******! IF I WERE DO YOU THINK I WOULD BE GOING AFTER LADIES? I'M NOT A FAN OF THE COCK, SO STOP SAYING I AM!

Answer 1

Nothing wrong with being a virgin by the way. I like "wacky" guys. One of these days a girl will come along and she will totally dig you. Don't think bad of yourself.

Answer 2

Maybe its your self-esteem, if you think u sound like an Idiot then most women can feel that i the way you approach them and speak to them, it may be a turn-off. I don kno u but i cant b sure wats xactly wrong with you. But if self esteem is a battle then u mite want to check with that cause hi-self-esteeem(not cocky) can b the the most attractive thing sometimes. U can get there no problem. An there's nothing wrong wit being a virgin either, you jus are waitin 4 that rite time, 30-40 years ago, being a virgin at ur age wud b perfectly normal. Its jus this time n age.

But good luck

Answer 3

Don't worry about it! Nothing is wrong with you and all these people who said you were gay are just retarded. Don't listen to them. I think that maybe you are not approaching the right girls. Some people are late bloomers maybe you are one of them. I think you also need to be a little more aggressive, maybe you are too passive. Also, a little secret, in the beginning you should only let people know about the positive sides of your personality and flirt a lot. Later on, you can let out the whole you after being more comfortable together..Good Luck.

I also agree with gangstadad..listen to him too.
Oh and don't forget hygiene!!!It's really important, we want men that smell good and look good...

Answer 4

because everything you do says stay away from me. you really don't want a gurlfriend, you want a mother. all your efforts are contrived, there is someone out there for you, if you are looking for a hot babe that you can trophy around, you gotta be a little more realistic. never had a date? what have you been doing the last 10 years? you definately are gonna have to play catch up. first thing you gotta do is get comfortable around women, start talking to fat women, not so attractive women, the ones that don't intimidate you, the ones you wouldn't go out with if they asked you. get some skills. work your way up to the women you think are more ideal for you. the truth about women is they for the most part don't really care what you look like, I use to think that was BS because us guys are way more shallow than that. but it's true, they would rather be around someone that they can be theirself around. to relax and feel good. pay more attention of how she feels rather than how you think you look, and don't be a suck azz. if she says something uncomfortable to you, stand your ground and tell her that's bullshyt. good luck.

Answer 5

Because nice, social, polite doesn't cute it anymore. Women these days love bad boys (or have they always? hmmm...) and now that we are more take charge with our own lives, we don't need Mr/ Dependable anymore. Cold, hard, but brimming with raw sexuality is what they are looking for. However, they're are women out there that like your type, you just haven't met one yet. Maybe the One Above wants you to fix something about you before having sex. He can be like that. Or maybe you're not looking at the right girls. More "homely" girls may not be as asthetically pleasing, but is it not the inside that matters? Her "inside" may feel better than the most beautiful girl in the worlds!

Answer 6

I don't know you so it's hard to tell. I have met men that could be described similarly but it's the way they act that turns me off. Some men just behave in such a way that is not appealing to women at all. Hmm... the best way to describe it is to think of how guys act around their closest friends when there isn't a woman in sight. It is a totally different behavior that women just do not get or connect with. If you find yourself acting the same around girls as you do when it's just the guys, you could be literally repelling women with unfamiliarity. Try learning how to relate to women. Befriend one and see what she reacts warmly to and what she acts indifferent to. Good luck!

Answer 7

After looking into your 360 page I think the problem lies with maturity level. Women are looking for stability and support , not a trip down cheesy street. My best advice would be buy a corvette and try the big money approach. Also try a long island ice tea

Answer 8

Maybe you are not taking the right approach. Maybe you are not asking the right woman.I think you will know when you meet the right one. It is not as easy to get a date now as it use to be. People are more cautious. Just keep looking and i am sure you will find the right one. If this is you in the picture i see nothing at all wrong with you. GOOD LUCK....

Answer 9

You may of not been able to find someone with your sense of humor....a little wacky at first can scare some women off because they are so uptight.... relax and be yourself you will find a women who thinks your wackiness is pretty normal and she may even be wackier than you... don't worry about it.. things work in strange ways, maybe if you stop trying so hard she will come to you... good luck

Answer 10

There is nothing wrong with you. Please stop thinking that. The one and only thing you need to know is be yourself. Don't get nervous, don't worry about whether she will like you or not. Don't freak out if she's not interested. Don't be in a rush, your time will come.

Good Luck!!!