I have a really nice personality, but they just don't seem interested. I'm thinking of taking a job as an exotic dancer, I'm sure I'll get guys there, should I try it?
2006-06-14 14:40:55 · 41 answers · asked by cornfunkel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-06-14 14:42:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 11⤊ 10⤋
Oh my goodness you need to grasp onto some self esteem. Exotic dancer, are you kidding me. Do you really need a guy? That much that it would drive you into the business of dancing nude? Heck, if you do that to get a guy then the next worst thing would be to sell yourself on the street. Think for a moment. You need to be happy with yourself. Take good care of yourself, take a few more minutes each day to do yourself up in the mirror, do your hair, etc and once you feel confident in your own skin, you will reflect that confidence. If you go out to get a guy by being an exotic dancer i will, as well as any other people who care about you, not respect you at all.
2006-06-14 14:45:38 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you have a nice personality. If you take a job as an exotic dancer, yes you will have guys drooling over you, but thats just your body. Maybe you'll get a date or two, but it will just be with the expectation of sex because you are an exotic dancer. There is a stigma attatched to the profession, and it would be very hard to find someone who actually respects you if you take the job. I would say try blind dates, going to public places, and most of all, just relax and have fun. You don't need a guy in your life to be happy. And trust me, if you just relax and let life happen, eventually you will find someone that you connect with, whom you may end up spending the rest of your life with. I know, it happened to me. All I had to do was be me.
2006-06-14 14:44:58 · answer #3 · answered by Artemis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be an exotic dancer - no man will respect you and it's something you can never undo.
Now - if that's your real picture. You need to dress up, do your hair, and maybe switch over to contacts. LOOKS are the first thing a man sees - not personality.
It sucks - and I've met a bunch of wonderful women - but I resisted because of their looks.
And try to look happier in the next picture.
2006-06-14 14:43:49 · answer #4 · answered by thedavecorp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, don't claim to be an exotic dancer. Be honest with people and with yourself. You need to try "not caring" what the guys think of you. You need to increase your confidence. That is how you get a good guy, not just a good looking guy, but a good guy. You can't judge a book by its cover. He could be a supermodel kind of guy and he could be too freaking shallow to care about you truly. I hope that this goes better for you in the near future. Just live life to the fullest and you will see changes. A girl who says she doens't need a guy, often gets one faster than one who chases. Guys like that, it shows independance. Best of luck to you.
2006-06-14 14:49:18 · answer #5 · answered by thewildeman2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will still have the same problem if you were an exotic dancer. go out and have fun your will meet a good looking guy. guy to a place or places that good looking guys hang around.
2006-06-14 14:45:46 · answer #6 · answered by BigDaddywantsblwjob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks are not everything looks should not matter i am sure every girl out there that wants a there boyfriend to look like brad pitt but i am positive all of there wishes are not going to come true don't worry about the looks it matters about the personality and whats on the inside that is what really counts and most guys are a**holes and i would not worry about it and if you are not the prettiest girl that don't matter because your looks should not count and everyone is as pretty as they make thereselves out to b e if you don't have a good personality and a kind heart then are you going to be very pretty i seroously dooubt that and it will be a big turn off to guys it don't matter how pretty you are to them you will still be a turn off stay positive and don't worry about anyone else it don't matter what they think
2006-06-14 14:51:16 · answer #7 · answered by rebelgurl_26241 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the goodl ooking guys are idiots lol! dont go for the dancing job just to get guys you will attract the wrong type. if your asking this question your obviously worried,it will only end up in tears if you push finding mr right. sit back and relax you will find a keeper if you dont look too hard! As you will just seam desperate and that is never good.
good luck :)
2006-06-14 14:46:00 · answer #8 · answered by charlotte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't change yourself into something you're not just to get a guy. Guys are selfish (yes, I'm admitting it), and sometimes they don't realize if a girl is good for them. Wait this phase out. Guys mature when they're older. You already know personality matters (not JUST looks). When they mature they will understand and see your nice personality.
2006-06-14 14:44:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's cuz u are ugly and u dress ugly too and i dont think u are good looking enough to be an exoctic dancer u might get laughed out the club. im not tryna be mean but im just speaking my mind. but try changing ur looks.
2006-06-14 14:44:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe cause you`re not very nice looking. if you`re that desperate for some d i c k, maybe you should be an exotic dancer.
2006-06-14 14:43:47 · answer #11 · answered by queen . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋