Who Has.........?

Question

Who has hurt u the most ever in your life? What did they do? What did they say etc.....and how has it affected u? Were u able to get over it?

Answer 1

I have had 6 people in my hurt me very badly. Because of their combined hurt and pain I find it very hard to trust anyone. I aIso find it hard to believe that there are any good people in the world. I don't trust my child with anyone and I have taught her that the world is a big place filled with people that are looking to get one over on you. I am a perfectionist wanting only the extremly best for my daughter. I am also wayyyy over protective, but I am working on it. I am also kinda a loner because I can't let people get close to me and know my true feelings about anything. I also teach my daughter (and I know that I shouldn't) not to get close to people because once you do, they will leave you.

My father- went to prison when I was 7 years old. Next time I saw him I was 22 years old, and he was in a coffin. No I haven't gotten over it, still affects me some days.



my ex husband- walked out on daughter. reminded me of what my father did to me, not over it 100%. probably never will be.

my husband (married almost 5 years)- had an affair. Nope, not over it yet. I am not expecting me to be over it any time soon due to the fact that he willing did this and willing wanted to tear out family apart. I filed for divorce, but he is trying to make things right.

my then best friend- for having an affair with my husband. Lying to my face and then laughing about it behind my back (yeah I overheard a converstation about her laughing about having sex with my husband and how clueless and dumb I am about it). I am still angry with her in sooo many ways, but you know it was her loss. I am a great friend to the few people I do hodl close to my heart as friends.

the man that molested and raped me for years- This has affected me sexually, mentally, and physically. I have gotten over the fact that it happened to me and my mother did nothing to stop it or protect me from him. I know that he has an illness that makes him attracted to children, and that is his problem. I tell anyone I know that might come in contact with him to be warned.

my mother- mentally and physically abusive to all 4 children. I have only gotten over this one because I know that she lacked the skills or knowledge to provide anything better.

Answer 2

My ex. We were together for 4 years. Living together for one. He was sleeping with my best friend for the last 3 years. Got married on my birthday a year after I moved out. Keeps contacting me. Can't honestly say I'm 100% over it. I want to be and try to be, but it still hurts and still affects me. That combined with my only other relationship that I had (dumped me when I was in a really low place after a car accident) have made it very hard to trust. And very hard to imagine ever being in a relationship. How would I know if it was going to work forever or just blow up?

Answer 3

My first love the guy I was engaged to first. We were going to get married SO the after I paid for him to stay near me and all of his travel expends. He calls me and days I got a girl pregnant I have to marry Her I am sorry But I can;t talk to you any more b/c she says so So. I still love you thought and I always Will now he is in TEN.and I am in Texas. Go figure that one out. I have never talked to him since I have dealt with it and I forgive him I just wish I could find im to tell Him That. His name is Timothy Shaw. Pleas help If you can. If not lol . I'll live my life just fine with out him.

Answer 4

My best friend from High School. She and I had been friend sfor about 10 years when it cam etime for my wedding. I had asked her to both stand up as a brides maid as well as sing at my wedding. She agreed to do so until she found out that I was inviting her ex boyfriend from High School to my wedding. Yes, they did not part on good terms; however, I had known her ex since 1st grade; she was now happily married to another man; and he was now happily married to another woman. She had a HUGE claim to her christian faith but was unwilling to forgive him for things that happened in high school in order to stand up in her best friend's wedding?? I wrote her a long letter telling her how much she hurt me. That was 8 1/2 years ago. We have had no contact since. I forgive her, but was hurt so badly. I was able to get over it because I have learned to accept people's differences - whether morals, decisions, or whatever. It is what it is, they are who they are.

Answer 5

A person I thought was my best friend. When a close relative was dying, I went to her for comfort and support, but she kept trying to change the subject--even tried telling jokes!--instead of just listening.

I got over it by telling myself that she was not a good listener and couldn't cope with other people telling her their problems. (She was much better at telling everyone else about her problems)
I soon found that I had other friends who were much more supportive and better listeners.

Answer 6

My father drunk abusive absent, yes I got over it. Holding on to the hurt only hurt me did not effect him at all

Answer 7

My Ex. He told me that he loved me and then just left me like it was nothing. It really tore me up inside and out. It made it tough for me to trust the man I'm with now (at first) But not anymore.

Answer 8

my boyfriend. he lied to me about being married. he apologizes a lot for it. and i still havent gotten over it. i dont trust him and probably never will.

Answer 9

my ex fiance he moved away while i was at a church thing and yes im over it and happily married

Answer 10

my boyfriend