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ok so i just got a boyfriends a couple of days ago...we hug but how do i get a step farther like holding hands or even kissing, i do NOT want to look like im desperate! i just want him to know that im ready for any step and i wanna know if he is.

2006-06-14 14:15:53 · 20 answers · asked by hmmmm..... 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

NOTHING PAST KISSING!!! i am not that perverted...and i just dont wanna go farther than that!

2006-06-14 14:23:14 · update #1

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Every relationship, has it's own timing and yours does too.
don't get desperate, seeing this is your first time, best to take it slow and easy.
When you are out walking, just reach for his hand, if he wants the same thing, he will hold you hand.
The rest will come in it's own sweet time. Don't rush it, enjoy the moment. You are very young and have years to go yet.

2006-06-14 14:21:46 · answer #1 · answered by johnb693 7 · 1 0

honestly if u have just started dating then if u make the first move then he will assume u do that with all guys. instead try somethin simple like holding hands. but kissing and the etc. is way too much. or just talk to him about it. remember desperate people do desperate things.

2006-06-14 21:19:32 · answer #2 · answered by sexyindianroyalty 2 · 0 0

You go ahead and hold his hand and when the conversation is right get real close and look at him dead in the eye telling him with no words what you want. He'll get it. But if he dosent RUN AWAY and dont look back.

2006-06-14 21:19:41 · answer #3 · answered by harrydlc3 1 · 0 0

Just relax...and take your time. Some guys may think of you as desperate if you rush things to quickly and you may scare him away. A hug for now will do. besides, wait for that right moment..trust me you won't have to think about what to do next, it will just happen.

Good Luck

2006-06-14 21:23:48 · answer #4 · answered by jttatum2005 2 · 0 0

Don't be a Ho. Slow down. Enjoy each other's company. Believe me the physical can turn sour really quickly if you find out things about him you don't like.

2006-06-14 21:20:37 · answer #5 · answered by MillwoodsGal 6 · 0 0

Just grab his hand. He won't mind. Kiss him on the cheek when least expected. If he is your boyfriend and not a crush, then he won't mind.

2006-06-14 21:19:09 · answer #6 · answered by J~Me 5 · 0 0

take things slow--and let things work out the way they should as time goes by--if you are dating someone for 2 days and you end out screwing--then you werent wanting the relationship in the first place just the sex--

2006-06-14 21:18:34 · answer #7 · answered by lhardwick69 2 · 0 0

whoa!!!! slow down. you don't want to let him know that you are ready for ANY step. holding hands is easy just walk close to him and reach over and grab his hand.

2006-06-14 21:20:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

just tell him youre ready for any step, its the best thing to tell what you feel, dont practice or reaherse it just say what in tha moment is right.

2006-06-14 21:19:30 · answer #9 · answered by Eddie 2 · 0 0

if u feel like u wanna hold his hand-do. if he doesn't want that he'll tell u or move his hand. it will all fall into place.

2006-06-14 21:19:29 · answer #10 · answered by Unicorn 3 · 0 0

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