Ive been seeing a lad for the past 4 months (but ive known him for 1 year),Infact my previous relationship broke down cos i fell for him, He is totally perfect, He is 100 times the bloke my ex is, But the problem is i only see him about 1-3 times a week he stays the nite and sumtimes have sex but other times just cuddle and go to sleep, He has told me he loves me and that he see's a future for us, but is he only saying it cos he knows thats what i want to hear ??
2006-06-14 14:03:25 · 7 answers · asked by Spunky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1-3 times per week is pretty good! Talk to him and try to find out how he feels. I think it sounds like you two are getting along famously. You could even try spending some time away from him and see what he does.
2006-06-14 14:06:54 · answer #1 · answered by Lorraine_us 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why is it that girls can't cope when a lad's being nice. But if he treats you like dirt then you bend over backwards to please him.
of course he loves you, why else would he say it, It's not to get in to your knickers coz he's already done it and you've said it yourself that he doesn't always want sex, just a cuddle and to be with you. I'm guessing he's not with you for your money, so stop being so negative and be thankful for what you've got.
2006-06-14 14:20:47 · answer #2 · answered by tom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep and you already know this 1-3 times a week sex booty call cuddle sleep where is the romance in this relationship go out do things together talk
2006-06-14 14:11:44 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is just your boyfriend not your husband. how much time do you want to spend with him. if your not having sex every time you see he then i would say that he isn't playing you. but then again there are some good players out there you never really now what someone thinks tell you ask them but don't act so insecure that is a big turn off
2006-06-14 14:27:49 · answer #4 · answered by bluedophin005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he just wants to use you for his pleasure. He says he loves... when you love someone, u spend special time with him, you care about him. I think u have to talk to him quickly to fix all things... Real love is interested in partner's good. if u want to be happy, find someone who loves u for what you are, not for the pleasure he can obtain from u!
2006-06-14 14:18:20 · answer #5 · answered by ovigyu2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i would say since he just doesnt want to have sex and he cuddles and stuff, that he actually likes u a lot.
2006-06-14 14:08:14 · answer #6 · answered by Bball_Fanatic! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are the only one who can tell if he really loves or not. its in the way he treats u.
2006-06-14 16:57:52 · answer #7 · answered by kasumi101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋