I have a boyfriend, but i have been having some second thoughts about our relationship. There is a guy at work that I have a crush on, but i do not know if he has a girlfriend or anything. Im not going to cheat or anything, I only talked to him about work related things, but I really like this guy, what should I do?
2006-06-14 13:35:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Play the field with this new guy. Get to know him a little more personal. If you like what he might have to offer it just might be something tryig for. As far as your bf goes, there are ways to get out of that. Start doing things that you know he doesn't like on purpose, when he gets mad, say "maybe this isn't going to work out." Might be better than dumping the guy.
2006-06-14 13:41:06 · answer #1 · answered by Bob 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is easy simply make up your mind who do you want to be with? If you have a crush on another guy then it's obvious that you don't have the same feelings for your boyfriend that you use to have. Do yourself and your boyfriend a favor break it off because you might wind up cheating of him.
2006-06-14 20:43:36 · answer #2 · answered by navagator73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to know him, see if your feeling for him are the same then compare the 2 to eachother and pick 1. If u don't want to cheat then tell your b/f u need space while u work on the other.
2006-06-14 20:41:13 · answer #3 · answered by silenwil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your having second thoughts it may not be serious (at least I'm assuming) so just split if you're not happy.
But w/ the guy at work think long and hard about it... especially if it's your career... b/c if it doesn't work or if he turns you down you are NEVER going to be comfortable at work again!
2006-06-14 20:46:17 · answer #4 · answered by SiLLy-mE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are having second thoughts you probably need to move
on. If you are still fairly young don't tie yourself down now. These
are the years when you need to be having a good time and working up to your real soul mate. Good luck.
2006-06-14 20:40:40 · answer #5 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think you should be taking advice from a 12 year old, but I think you should find out a little more information and then decide what you are going to do.
2006-06-14 20:40:35 · answer #6 · answered by puffypurplepet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU ARE CURRENTLY IN A RELATIONSHIP AND HAVE A BOYFRIEND THEN YOU REALLY CANT PURSUE THIS OTHER GUY BECAUSE ITS NOT FAIR TO YOU OR TO YOUR BOYFRIEND AND ITS NOT FAIR TO THE PERSON WHO YOU WORK WITH. I HAVE A NO-DATE AT WORK POLICY WITH MY CO-WORKERS AT WORK I DONT KNOW HOW YOU WOULD FEEL ABOUT THAT BUT I WOULD DO ALOT OF SOUL SEARCHING BEFORE BREAKING OFF YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND (UNLESS HES THE TYPE THATS ABUSIVE TOWARDS YOU) HE SOUNDS LIKE PRINCE CHARMING NAD
2006-06-14 20:40:18 · answer #7 · answered by Ann C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with the one you got u dont know if the guy at work is interested and if he was what is he interested in???? I say dont ggo any farthar with this guy it is not worth loosing a guy that could possilby want to marry u in the future.............Stay right where you are but if u become unhappy then pursue your fantasy about this guy and see what might happen.........Good Luck.................
2006-06-14 20:40:52 · answer #8 · answered by Mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your interested in someone eles.. then hate to say it but then your not truley in love with your boyfriend. YOu need to get out of the relationship before someone gets hurt.
2006-06-14 20:40:00 · answer #9 · answered by Piper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he would like to join you to lunch. Tell him that you had already planned to have lunch at a favorite spot with your cousin and tell him that he canceled out on you. Tell him that you had your heart set to go to this place and ask him if he would like to join you because you don't want to eat alone.
I think having lunch or coffee at a coffee break may break the ice, see if he shows interest. I wish someone would ask me like this..
2006-06-14 20:44:59 · answer #10 · answered by mklwis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋