I never knew my father..but my stepdad was okay he never really said much he just said "Ask your mother" or agree wit her
i never really got along with my mother I guess i was always i reminder of my real father who left her
i guess that why i went through my "rebellion" stage
2006-06-14 13:16:00 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well... i always felt like a damn bastard even though i wasn't. My stepdad (for 12 freaking years!!!) was a child molestor. You wont believe the things he has done to me during that whole time. And my mom always stood by him even though he beat her a$$ up every stinkin day. Sometimes I felt like she deserved it, but then when I saw her face covered in blood I couldn't help but crying. I cried myself to sleep every night, thinking that I would wake up the next morning with no mother. I never felt close to neither of them, but if I ever did, I would always stick with my mom. I never felt like she cared, cuz even after I told her about my stepdad, she still had the fuck1ng guts to ask me to forgive dat b*tch cuz he "loved" me." And she HAS been a witness of what my stepdad used to do with me. Some people are lucky they dnt have a dad"... I always think. But to tell you the truth, I waz alwayz close to my grandmother. She would kill a n*gga for her baby. lol.... which is me. I always felt comfortable with myself and avoided being with them. But I waz only 5 years old back then. But yeah... my grandpa is like yo stepdaddy... he be telling me "Preguntale a tu abuela" (Ask yo grandma) and my grandma would tell me the same thing. lol. its mad crazy. And you think it's crazy not getting along with your mom cuz you "remind" her of your dad.... How crazy you think it iz to have a mom who actually HAD your dad by her side, cheat on him, dump him, go with sum other dude, and love that MAN more than you no matter wat a monster he is. And on top of that.... keep you from knowing who your real dad is and lie to you by saying it's someone else???
It all ended ONLY 2 years ago... (dats not very much)
Anywayz..................... so u ask... "Are you closer to your mother or father?"... my answer... my mom... especially now dat she in a wheelchair, she's blind, she goes to dialysis (with needles) every other day, has had open heart surgery, has NO legs (they amputated both... i waz devastated), almost got her rite arm cut off, is always throwing up, takes like 30-40 pills a day, has a bad-azz Diabetes, died (her heart stopped) and had to go to emergency room and get relived......... i seriously dnt kno where to stop.
2006-06-14 15:33:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
Neither, my father went to prison when I was 7 and my mother was a welfare rat. To lazy to get a job and make a better life for her family.
2006-06-15 02:57:53 · answer #2 · answered by Someonesmommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mother because I live with her, My parents are seperated and yeah sure, I have moments where I can get really angry and act like a maniac but other than that I'm good.
2006-06-14 20:21:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im closer to my father, always have been. Because he always told me how things were straight up and my mother always leactured me. She gets on my nevouse. I love her cause shes my mom. but im closer to my dad, hes not drama like my mother is! lol Im talking about my adopted parents that raised me. I dont know my real parents. dont care to eaither.
2006-06-14 20:27:12 · answer #4 · answered by Piper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We tend to be closer to the mother, for she has given birth to you and you have seen her first in most cases. It is just the natural thing.
2006-06-14 20:21:39 · answer #5 · answered by SurveyCorner11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mom she is fun and so is my dad some times i talk to both of them but i can talk the most to my mom about my problems and to you guys your step dads only trying to help hey maybe if you want to know your real dad ask your mom thats the best solushin
2006-06-14 22:00:43 · answer #6 · answered by angie lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dad, Mom died 7 years ago. Even when she was alive it was 5+ years that I did not talk to her. Guilt? You bet...
2006-06-14 20:35:51 · answer #7 · answered by aszimmer1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are both dead and I am left an orphan! They died a few years ago so I ain't close to neither.
2006-06-14 20:19:57 · answer #8 · answered by Bear Naked 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely my mother....we are very close,she's like my best friend,i tell her everything....things i wouldnt tell any 1 else.....as far as my dad is concerned we have a horrible relationship,e1 says we are so much alike is why we have a problem....
2006-06-14 20:20:05 · answer #9 · answered by dawnita0322 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mother, she's home more. and she even works somtimes, we hang a lot and act goofy like we're best friends!
2006-06-14 20:20:51 · answer #10 · answered by chica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋