I'd like to know all about it from someones who have tried this.what are the medical advantages and disadvantages ?if u know. I decided to be lesbian in order to get rid of those guys who take what they want from me &then let me to break down in a bad way .
2006-06-14 13:11:55 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok you have decided to be a lesbian because some guys would let you down and make you upset? Well if I let every time a woman let me down change me then I would just be depressed.
Things happen to people for a reason. If you like women, say you like women. Don't blame it on the dumb *** schmuck, that prolly couldn't tell the difference between night day, be the reasoning behind your decision.
Some guys are jerks but some(me) are really great. But also, you should take into consideration that women can be alot more sneakier than men and way more evil if they wanted to. Please don't take offense, I come a family of women and I have had my share of the sneaky ones. So just be careful and choose your partner wisely and don't just hop into bed with anyone, make it meaningful, and the other person isn't willing to wait then neither should you, move on to the next and all you have to do is get to know someone and the truth about them will reveal itself to you.
Good luck from a good guy.
P.S, I love women and I truly believe and thank God for his/her most wonderful creation.
2006-06-14 13:23:41 · answer #1 · answered by Love_is_there 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Medial advantages? You mean like the health benefits of a less stressful relationship? I don't think people "become" gay or lesbian for a particular reason. They just are. And if you don't like bumping the nasty with a nasty that looks like your own, you may be wandering back to the men who take you for all you're worth again real soon. Once you do, look for counseling in your area to find out why you attract such losers (I'd be surprised if you didn't wind up with women who do you the same way).
2006-06-14 20:18:55 · answer #2 · answered by Biff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to worry about pregnancy, you understand your partners body better since its almost the same as yours, they are more considerate of your feelings, both in bed and out of. A disadvantage is if you were to want a chid you'd have to get artificial insemination(spelling?), marriage is harder to get, and you will have some people make fun of you for being a lesbian. But you should have some attraction to women not just to get away from the guys that hurt you because that'll only hurt your partner more.
2006-06-14 20:16:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that you should concentrate on being a good person. Your sexuality doesn't matter. You can be a strong woman without having to turn to lesbianism, however, be a lesbian because that is what you are attracted to, not because a man did you wrong. Many men have treated me wrong, but I am strictly dickly.
2006-06-14 20:16:09 · answer #4 · answered by amissybell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be vilified by friends and family, so you need to be strong. You will be hated by a good portion of society, so you REALLY need to be strong. This must be something you really want because it's not like joining a cool gym. It's a decision that will create anger and confusion in your associates. Don't make this decision without looking deep within yourself to know that it's the only way to go. Good luck.
2006-06-14 20:18:32 · answer #5 · answered by dante_cubit_3000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for the most part, you can't choose to be a lesbian unless you have always been one from the beginning. being homosexual is bascally a cross wiring in the brain. but anyways, it's up to you and if that's what you choose so be it. just don't go hitting on women who aren't. as for advantages or disadvantages not really.
2006-06-14 20:18:06 · answer #6 · answered by hepliin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's good to be a lesbian, because you can't die of CHILDBIRTH.
That's an advantage.
I do find it's a good thing to find a couple lesbians in my bed... No they aren't interested in me... But it's DARN interesting!
2006-06-14 20:15:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I might be a lesbian too! I love women and I ain't letting any guys touch me neither! I got stuck with this Y chomy...
2006-06-14 20:16:45 · answer #8 · answered by Bear Naked 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if being a lesbian makes you happy, then go for it.Its not a good or bad thing.Its your choice.If that's what you want then do it, don't worry about what people think about it.
2006-06-14 20:15:53 · answer #9 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God made Adam and Eve
not Adam and Steve!
( in your case, not Samantha and Eve.)
2006-06-14 20:31:30 · answer #10 · answered by mulliganman101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋