If she never finds out, then she doesn't get hurt. It's a victimless crime, like punching someone in the dark.
2006-06-14 12:49:48 · 12 answers · asked by Perfect Specimen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Even your analogy of punching someone in the dark isn't a "victimless crime", it's just one in which you presumably weren't identifiable. But more to the point, why did you bother getting married if you had even the slightest notion that you would wind up wanting to cheat? That's a crappy thing to do, man, and I really hope you're just kidding, but in case you aren't...if you value your wife at all or care about her feelings in anyway, DON'T do it. You will get caught (sooner or later, never fails), you will hurt her, and what goes around definitely comes around (100 times out of 100!) Rethink it while there's still time. Good luck. By the way...wickeywickey...that was one hell of a good answer!
2006-06-14 13:40:24 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You were obviously way too immature to get married and it's disgusting to cheat, it's morally wrong. It's also not victimless if you pick up a disease and take it home to your wife. You're being reckless not only with your life but also with the woman's life that you stood up in front of God and vowed to cherish until the day you die. Do her a favor and get a divorce so she can move on and find a real man!!!
2006-06-14 12:56:15 · answer #2 · answered by miss_angel_eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's wrong. You stood before God and took vows that you would forsake "all others, keep yourself only unto her as long as you both shall live." She may not know, but God knows. It's not a victimless crime. She's an innocent victim of the crime of treachery by a man who obviously doesn't deserve her.
2006-06-14 12:58:24 · answer #3 · answered by anonymous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of how you would feel if she met a gorgeous man, got jiggy and then slept with him in your/her bed, told him all of the things that she tells you when you are in bed together, got out massage oil, bondage gear and candles and banged him into next century and then smiled at you and gave you a hug when you got home. What if you could still smell him on her? What if the place *felt* different. What if you could tell that she didn't value you and showed it in her body language, voice and presense or made up for it insincerely.
How would you feel? Think about it.
2006-06-14 12:57:22 · answer #4 · answered by wickeywickey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its people like this that make women hate men. And take away the good girls from us nice guys. If you can't stay true to the one you married then you shouldn't be married in the first place.
2006-06-14 12:56:09 · answer #5 · answered by raven1981 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you even ask that? When you married to your wife, you made a commitment, to take care of each other and respect one another. Most importantly, she trusts you, and if that doesn't matter to you, it only shows how selfish you are, and that you shouldn't be married at all.
2006-06-14 13:03:30 · answer #6 · answered by Lexy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you ask me you are being a low life cheating behind her back when you married someone you are cominted to them only that preson and cheating is so wroge and if she finds out you are going to be kick out next like big time okay.
2006-06-14 13:29:57 · answer #7 · answered by HONEY BUNS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look here i dont think u should've gotten married if ur gonna cheat and if you loved her u wouldnt cheat and no it is wrong to cheat cuz she will find out or ur guilty conscience will end up telling her trust me girls have signs that they can find out
2006-06-14 13:06:06 · answer #8 · answered by $_$aRiEl$_$ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your are a crack up man! of course it is i mean you married her for a reason in the bible it says not to commit adultry i hope your wife isnt reading this question.
2006-06-18 09:41:36 · answer #9 · answered by dncrgal55 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
holy lord, i feel bad for your wife
2006-06-14 13:17:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋