2006-06-14 12:35:59 · 14 answers · asked by bliss-p 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you are with this person, are you happy, do you have fun together? Can you trust the person you are with, and the most important question... are you old enough to even think about being in a serious relationship. I never understood why people in their early 20's or younger are so hell bent on being in a serious relationship. You need to go out there and experience life because there will be a time in your life where you will be ready to settle down with that one special person and understand what "True Love" really is. Don't let your peers pressure you or your loins for lust fool you into thinking you are in love. Most of you here don't even have a clue as to what love is or what it takes to keep it. Learn life's lessons so you can make wiser decisions as you progress through life.
2006-06-14 12:42:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry Honey, thats not something ANYONE can tell you.
That is something you have to decide on your own. You when something isnt right in your relationship. As far as if its meant to be, only GOD knows that.
There are things you must do in your positon, as that person's mate to make it last.
I guess when you cross that alter that is when you will know if its meant to be or not..but then again ..that doesnt mean anything either...
There is a high turn over rate for divorces among young adults
Good Luck :)
2006-06-14 12:50:05 · answer #2 · answered by MsPrettyKat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relationships take time and effort regadless if you are married or not. What is "meant to be" anyhow? do you mean, is it meant to go as far as getting married, having kids, being a family? The only way you know I guess is if you stop asking questions like "is this meant to be" you just know.
2006-06-14 12:40:16 · answer #3 · answered by Mikkos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think any relationship is meant to be. Its always hard hard work. If you want a relationship be prepared to go through alot of pain. Dont get me wrong its worth it in the end!
2006-06-14 12:37:32 · answer #4 · answered by xdynamisx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is "meant to be." That's fantasy. Just know what you want. If you want a girl who doesn't want you, MOVE ON. If a girl likes you but you don't like her, TELL HER. If you like a girl who likes you, that is the best thing that can happen!
2006-06-14 12:39:08 · answer #5 · answered by dante_cubit_3000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When both people contribute to make life better for eachother. Respect/Trust, Commitment, and Comunication are the keys to unlock the magic of a relationship.
2006-06-14 12:39:33 · answer #6 · answered by Ben 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know a relationship is meant to be when you are 100% comfortable around them. If you can fart in front of someone without embarasment...that is comfort.
2006-06-14 12:40:25 · answer #7 · answered by carriebroschart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its about communication. if you guys can talk pretty good and you both like each other, then it will probably work out.
if you just sit there not talking... then it probably WON'T work out as well.
plus, you can feel it. but not right away always. at first, i was scared that me and my boyfriend weren't going to work out until later when i realized that we actually were GREAT with each other. so give it a while before actually deciding.
2006-06-14 12:38:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the person your with makes you want to be a better person, if you find yourself wanting to do special things for this person. If the person brings out the best in you. That and you should be able to feel it.
2006-06-14 12:39:01 · answer #9 · answered by miss_angel_eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they are there for you good or bad.And they don't meant to be you cant find them until they need you and they tell all you secret
2006-06-14 12:38:39 · answer #10 · answered by Happy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋