2006-06-14 12:08:51 · 13 answers · asked by hardyk112 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I didn't bleed and it really didn't hurt me that much at all when I had sex the first time .. I think some girls "exaggerate" how bad it really hurts ...
I had alcohol involved though so that might have been why .. !
2006-06-14 12:12:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no. Some girls bleed and some don't. If you bleed it is because the hymen membrane has been torn. A tampon is not the same as a penis (although some are close). The hymen is not a barrier wall like you have been led to believe, its outside of the vagina.
Not all girls bleed. All girls do not have a hymen. You may have been born without one, or perforated it while playing sports (i.e. riding a bike, horseback riding, etc.), or torn it while inserting a tampon and never knew it.
Most of what I'm telling you is from memory. To get more info, do a yahoo search on the word HYMEN. Hope this helps.
2006-06-14 12:23:22 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. TEE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone bleeds the first time they have sex. What causes the bleeding is the breaking of the hymen, a thin membrane in there. The hymen can break unnoticed when you're a lot younger by bike riding, horseback riding, or even a tampon... though tampons are ususally slim enough to fit right past the hymen. There's really no way to tell if one will or won't bleed--everyone's body is different.
2006-06-14 12:14:51 · answer #3 · answered by lizzieunleashed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can, yes. A tampon is much smaller in circumference than a man is; and doesn't always remove all of the hymen; or stretch you to the extent that a guy will, either. Even if your first time, first few time, whatever, are with a relatively small guy; and you end up getting with a guy that's larger; you can even have a bit of spotting then, as well, even though you've already had sex before.
2006-06-14 12:14:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no just because u use a tampon when ur a virgin doesnt meen it will remove your...... so that when u have sex it doesnt bleed. unless u put it a little too deep. and no girls dont exaggerate on how bad it hurts. some girls hymen are thicker than others causing more pain. the thicker it is the more it will hurt.
2006-06-14 12:18:14 · answer #5 · answered by ~Sunny Delite~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you do and simply put it will hurt a tampon is much smaller than a guy if you are thinking about having sex do some reasearch first and talk to a parent if possible
2006-06-14 12:14:10 · answer #6 · answered by little bit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's depend on your activities when you were young. Girls that play a lot of sports like gymastick, horse riding, etc. might not bleed from torn hymen
2006-06-14 12:13:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you will. Tampon use has nothing to do with this.
2006-06-14 12:17:16 · answer #8 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, mens body part is bigger then a tampon!
2006-06-14 12:11:08 · answer #9 · answered by jenny2tone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how the penis (depending on width and length) is entered or how sensitive the lining of the vagina wall is
2006-06-14 12:13:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋