I have made out with a guy and he hasn't asked me out yet. I really like him and I want to go steady with him, but I need a way to get him to ask me out!!!!
2006-06-14 12:05:21 · 11 answers · asked by lbtgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't make out with him.
2006-06-14 12:06:42 · answer #1 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls and guys both need to learn this - there are no tricks or special recipes that you can use to MAKE someone like you. Either they like you or they don't. The best you can do is tell them the way that you feel and hope that they will give you a chance. Besides, if you have to play a game or act like someone else to make someone like you, it isn't really you they like. A lot of guys love the game, not the girl. It is nothing personal - most young guys just don't feel a need to have an intimate give and take relationship with a girl. And if the don't, you can't make them need or want that. Just put yourselves out there, and accept the answer you get, whether it is good or bad. Also, if you get a positive answer, but the person's actions don't match their words, then break it off. A lot of people will tell you they are interested just so they can use you whenever they feel like it; these people are not willing to give back though and accommodate your needs, and who needs that?
2006-06-14 12:14:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have given part of yourself and he has not asked you out, your hope of going steady with him are not promising.
You are young and have long way to go. Don't be in a hurry to be committed, especially to a guy that makes out with you then forgets you exist.
He is acting his male age......getting what he can without committing to a relationship. Move on to greener pasters.
2006-06-14 12:10:57 · answer #3 · answered by Nick R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm im sorry to say this but im just going to tell the truth. if he made out with you and hasn't asked you out all he wants is physical stuff. he probably just wants to be friends with benifits. i hate to say that but it might be true. if you really want to go out with him, make him think that you will make out with him again then not let him do it and say you want to be in a relationship before you make out with someone. try that and see if it works.
2006-06-14 12:11:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him what time and when then if He ask why just say that your friend likes him and she wonted to now but don't say with friend then brig like 2 or 3 friends with u when you steady and say o hi do you mind if i steady with you cuzz my friends are being to loud
2006-06-14 12:13:07 · answer #5 · answered by samara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you really just say that you want to go steady with him, is this 1930??? LOL
2006-06-14 12:07:53 · answer #6 · answered by jt0915 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ouuuhhh...if you've already made out with him, your chances are very slim. And besides is it really worth it to 'trick' a guy into asking you out. Wouldn't you rather he ask you out because he wants to?
2006-06-14 12:13:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made out with a guy but you aren't going out? That's just dumb.
2006-06-14 12:12:20 · answer #8 · answered by Breanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How 'bout you ask him out?
2006-06-14 12:07:04 · answer #9 · answered by ntoriano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well wat it sounds like is that he just likes to play around and not looking 4 a seriouse relationship.
2006-06-14 12:08:43 · answer #10 · answered by chika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋