I wanna know why when after i ask girls out and they reject me why do they have to tell you something nice first. like you a great guy and any girl would be lucky to have you. or you are one of the sweetest guys i have ever met and you are gonna make some girl real happy.
ok i understand you trying to be nice and not hurt my feelings but if i wanted any girl i would hold a sign up that said ill pay for all your meals wit me or something like that. theres a reason y i asked you and not just any girl. i dont want to know y u like me. i want to know y you dont like me . am i the only that feels like this
2006-06-14 12:00:39 · 18 answers · asked by Clint87 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They want to let you down easy and not look like a B**** in the process. Probably worried they will hurt you like a puppy if they say "I'm not the least bit interested in you"
Girl's brains don't work like Guy's brains. They think about all the emotional ramifications of the way they say things to people. Guys want to get to the point and move on.
The REAL issue is that girls are getting the vibe that you can't give them security or your weak (the "nice guy" syndrome). Show confidence that you are the shiznit and girls might be more interested in you. Sad but true. That's why jerks get more play than nice guys. Funny thing is that nice guys (like you and me) are better providers in the long run.
2006-06-14 12:13:07 · answer #1 · answered by Sleepy Dad 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You're not probably the only one. But yeah they are trying to be nice and all but i think you should deserve to know why they don't want you to go with them. I mean i do the same thing, but if the boy asks me why i said no, i tell them whatever the reason is. I think they deserve that much since they did come and ask me u kno. But i kno some of my friends do that and then don't tel; them why because they say the boy can't handle the truth. And they are actually tellling you the truth though. Some girl other than them would love to have you as a boyfriend, but they are just not the one.
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
HAVE A NICE DAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-14 19:12:10 · answer #2 · answered by homeskilletbiscuit102 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever thought that you pick the wrong girls and just maybe they are right that you are a great guy and any other girl but them would be very lucky to have you. Sometimes, I notice that good guys like you will look over equally good girls to get those popular or good looking girls or bad girls. I have been told that to. One day you will get the right girl. Hang in there. And except the wonderful compliments.
2006-06-14 19:04:18 · answer #3 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i think they say that 2 let u down ez. so they don't hurt your feelings. that is all i can say. but if you really like this girl then you should ask her to sit down with u for a sec. or 2 so you can get to know this girl. then you do what is best so she isn't that much of a stranger or a blind date. I'm 17 and i have had to let a ton of boys like you down. but first i always ask them to sit down with me so we can get to know each other. take my advice and see what happens. good luck!!!
2006-06-14 19:10:08 · answer #4 · answered by julia w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jeez! I am sick of these teenage "does he like me" "what do I do" questions.
It is a TEMPORARY little relationship and will be meaningless when you look back on it later in life (stupid even). Get over yourself and your insecurities. All you little teenagers are afraid of each other and care WAY TOO MUCH about WHAT OTHER PEOPLE think about you. When you are a real grown-up, you care less and have REAL relationships.
Thank you
2006-06-14 19:02:00 · answer #5 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are trying to make themselves feel better about letting you down. As well as making you feel not so bad about being let down.
2006-06-14 19:06:29 · answer #6 · answered by blndtrtle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To ease the rejection. Its like that saying if you have nothing nice to say don't say anything at all.
2006-06-14 19:04:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just trying not to hurt your feeling to bad I guess.
2006-06-14 19:02:29 · answer #8 · answered by jt0915 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes girls are like that but there are guys like that also
2006-06-14 19:03:20 · answer #9 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they don't or want to be upfront. Tell it like it is and do him a favor
2006-06-15 17:14:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋