for a 12 year old to wanna kill her self and feel depressed bcuz my little girl feels that way what should i do plus she wont talk about it HELP!!!!
2006-06-14 11:47:05 · 16 answers · asked by love_angela_music_baby 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
No, don't kill yourself. It would crush me and I don't even know you! Just listen to Good Charolette's "Hold On". Even if you don't like them. Please, it will get better!
2006-06-14 11:51:02 · answer #1 · answered by otter7 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
it is not something any child should ever think or feel but some do, a lot of the time they are just after attention but ignoring it is not a chance any parent wants to take. if she will not talk to you about it then you need to talk to her ask questions that are not direct and don't push her for an answer give her time. speak to her teacher at school and see if she is slowing down in some aspects of her schooling take a look around .in the home,at school and her friends if there is a problem it is usually only small she just doesn't know how to deal with it
2006-06-14 15:23:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay here's the deal... she probably doesn't really want to kill herself. *This is coming from a fellow young teen* Drama at our age, from friends, teachers, boys, and yes, parents, is very extreme. It can cause us to cry, and say those cursed words, "I wish I was dead!" She's probably just lashing out because of puberty. There's many changes going on in her life, on the inside and out. Here's what you need to do: Talk to her. Comfort her. Try not to yell, or upset her. Let her talk when she feels ready to talk about the problems she's having. And if she is showing any signs of PHYSICAL suicide, that is the time that you need to sit her down, and have a long talk. Make her understand that she could really hurt herself. Take her to a physciatrist if she refuses to stop. OH... one more thing. Do not spy on her too much, or she will start to feel like you are ganging up on her, and that will just cause more issues. Good luck!
2006-06-14 11:55:38 · answer #3 · answered by Angela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No obviously its not normal for anyone to harvest those feelings. If she wont talk to you, you need to find someone for her to talk to. A theapist, a friend, a relative. You can't ignore the problem and hope it will go away because even though it does sometimes work out that way you shouldn't let her feelings stay bottled in. Look into a therapist.. or even a hypnotist. My friend used to go to one and it actually ended up helping her through a lot. Not like the " you are getting sleepy " kind. the hypnotist therapy. good luck.
2006-06-14 11:52:38 · answer #4 · answered by lana89xx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No....it is not normal. However, the fact that you know about it is a very good sign. I would hope that she told you in conversation. If your daughter is talking about this it means she is looking for some help or answers. Be the listening ear she needs. Do not be negative or judgmental or she will just shut up. Talk over the issues that have taken her to this point and try to help her through whatever crisis she seems to be encountering. If you find that there is too much for you to deal with, please do contact professional help.
2006-06-14 11:54:06 · answer #5 · answered by Laz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask if it's normal I'd suggest family therapy for more than just your daughter. And most adults spell it "because" not "bcuz" Teenagers need to have adult acting parents - not teen acting parents - hopefully they already have friends - and friends can be replaced - parent's cant. Act like a parent and get some help.
2006-06-14 11:53:43 · answer #6 · answered by David H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your 12 year old wants to kill herself, there is something wrong. You need to take her to a Dr and get her some help before it's to late.
2006-06-17 19:56:28 · answer #7 · answered by yankeechik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think since she would tell u that she wants too is a sign she is doing it for attention and maybe feels left out or not important if she really wanted to kill her self then i dont think she'd let u know
2006-06-14 11:53:48 · answer #8 · answered by Kitkat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please take her to get help. These can be normal for some teenagers but you never know if they are serious and you should always treat it as such. Tell her how much you love her and that you would never want her to do that and that you will try to help her feel better in any way possible. Good luck to the both of you. You are in my prayers.
2006-06-14 11:52:44 · answer #9 · answered by prettypixie1997 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal for teenagers to feel depressed and moody. But if you really suspect that she wants to kill herself, you need to get help. Call a hotline. Bring her to a shrink/counsellor.
Take it seriously.
2006-06-14 11:51:16 · answer #10 · answered by Mary H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally went thru that when i was about that age. the reason being was i didn't have anyone to talk to. my parents divorced and i had to live with my grandparents--i felt so alone. that could be her problem feeling alone. talk with her as often as you can, that means alot. i got over that feeling, and i have confidence that she will too.
good luck, and i wish you the best
2006-06-14 12:01:37 · answer #11 · answered by ♥Charmed One♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋