2006-06-14 11:28:46 · 22 answers · asked by gigerninfo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Allow youself time to heal, then take it at your OWN pace
hugs
Mamma
2006-06-14 11:30:53 · answer #1 · answered by rainbowz001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so right, and I am as guilty as the others, saying to get over it and move on. But when it's you, who has to do it, it just isn't that easy, as you are finding out. We just can't turn off emotions, like a light switch.
The only thing that helps, is the passage of time, and keeping busy. Keeping your mind occupied, will help.
Get active in some hobby or sports, or with other people, don't let your mind dwell on your ex.
Don't think of what was, but of what can be. Look around, is there any one else that may interest you? If not yet, then stick to your friends, go out to dinner, a movie etc.
In time, you will get over it, the time in-between thinking of your ex, will become longer, and one day, he won't even enter your mind.
I know that is hard to believe, right now, but it happens to all of us. We need contact to stay with someone, when no contact occurs, they fade from ones memory.
2006-06-14 18:36:54 · answer #2 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An ex is like losing a loved one. You need to mourn the loss of your loved one, cherish the memories, bury him and move on. Life is about moving forward. Don't linger in the past. Although I'm sure it was great, it's over for a reason. Replacing an ex works for some but I'd party it up before I go and get into another relationship.
2006-06-14 18:37:11 · answer #3 · answered by lucky7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, before u start seriously dating other people, u have to get to know ur self. i was in a five year relationship and when i got out i thought i could date other women and be over her, but that was wrong, i needed time to get to know my self more and know what i wanted in a woman. i am not saying close urself up, but take ur time. time really is the only thing that helps to get over a past love
2006-06-14 18:32:57 · answer #4 · answered by mo_hef 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the meantime, you can catch up with old friends, get a job, get a hobby. Just do something that is safe, and that you enjoy and most important, keeps your mind busy.
2006-06-14 18:31:15 · answer #5 · answered by Almighty Malachi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really love him but he does not love u u should get over him and go with the next man that u think is fine or even sex to u and ur ex might what u back but just make sure that u do not get back with him again unless he does every lil smart or stupid thing that u say just caues he broke ur heart it is a dogg eat dogg world
2006-06-14 18:35:07 · answer #6 · answered by michelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're gonna need some hobbies, and groups for people who enjoy the same hobbies..it's much better than just running out and dating, and you might find somebody more interesting at something like that instead of just hooking up with someone for the sake of hooking up.
2006-06-14 18:32:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for a new guy, and in the meantime, get a nice large dildo to replace him. LOL
2006-06-14 18:32:04 · answer #8 · answered by jt0915 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have fun with the family and good friends. You can't go wrong with all the REAL LOVE! You'll feel it. Believe me! There's nothing more powerful than LOVE. Be kind to you first.
Adios, sodapop.
2006-06-14 18:38:04 · answer #9 · answered by sodapop44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to you'r room,crawl in you'r bed,Curl in a circle,and cry you'r little eyes out.Do this for about 1 month and you should be pretty much over him by then.Good luck!
2006-06-14 18:38:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I pimp Ho's and have since the days of old, so if your over 18 you can make me the Benjamin's. Holla. That will help you to get over it quick
2006-06-14 18:33:01 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋