is it better to wait until your married to have sex or to just do it with a guy/girl that will have sex with you? i just want ya'll's opinion!!
2006-06-14 11:19:41 · 14 answers · asked by ivegotalovelybunchofcoconuts 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am only 14 and i don't want to have sex i am just asking ppl's opinions!!!
2006-06-14 11:29:13 · update #1
just think...the earlier you get started, and the more partners you have, the more apt to have an unwanted pregnancy and an STD. So, then, when you do find the one you want to spend forever with, you'll already have a bunch of fatherless kids, and a disease to pass along to mr right.
2006-06-14 11:40:00 · answer #1 · answered by Aunt Mair á?¦ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe originality is out of the window for me today, but I'd say trust your feelings. If religion or social pressure is very important for you I might advise wait till marriage. If you just seek relief and see sex as a way to recreate with friends, do it with any guy/gal that you like enough.
I for one think that sex is important, so I would advise you to do it with someone you loved. Don't make a fuss of it, don't expect it to be perfect, just have fun with someone you like very much. But keep in mind that it is a personal choice. It is your body and your life, so you decide, no matter how cool or uncool it may be.
2006-06-14 18:28:49 · answer #2 · answered by Remco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not that you have to wait until your married to have sex, but you should wait until you have found someone that you truly love. Having sex just to have it with someone is not right... you can have sex before you are married, just make sure you know the decision you are making.
2006-06-14 18:26:14 · answer #3 · answered by kharv29rcr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until your married and wait until your older than 21 to get married! im 23 and i havent even had a boyfriend!
2006-06-14 18:25:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you have to wait till your married, but sex is a lot better when there is emotion behind, otherwise you will probably just feel guilty afterwards
2006-06-14 18:24:11 · answer #5 · answered by e r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait...sex without love is just a physical release but sex with love is out of this world
2006-06-14 18:23:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait...don't just settle..I did that when I was 14 years old..just to get my first time out of the way....I wish I would have waited for it to be with someone I really cared about.
2006-06-14 18:23:48 · answer #7 · answered by Syeira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you should Wait till you are an adult till you do this then find some that you really like and can trust before you do this.
2006-06-14 18:42:44 · answer #8 · answered by looking1964 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait!! Girls I believe should wait.
2006-06-14 18:25:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its so much better to wait for someone you have feelings for, and someone who has feelings for you too. If you just do it to do it, its not as special.
2006-06-14 18:56:31 · answer #10 · answered by spoiled_21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋