When you've been with someone for about 4 years and the relationship seems perfect, suddenly you break up. He told me that he doesnt want a relationship right now and its too much stress. However, i get text messages and sad looks in his face whenever i see him. What's up with that. Do you think he'll call me once he realizes what hes lost. Or is this just a case of wanting to be out with the boys type of thing? help- im heartbroken. Not only that- we made plans together and this is so sudden. You're probably thinking about why i posted this into the pregnancy board, but theres all types of women who've been through stuff there- please help me. What should i do? We were engaged?
2006-06-14 11:12:20 · 6 answers · asked by Jessica S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
There is something more to this story, I am not sure of it, but there is more to it. I would suggest that you move on and let him go. If he is going to leave you now, whats to say that if you ever get back together he isn't going to walk on you when you get pregnant or going through a really hard time and really need him there.
2006-06-14 20:21:37 · answer #1 · answered by Someonesmommy 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you do not just leave someone for 4 years and just say i don't want a relationship yet. either he is not telling you the whole story. or something is going on. I can expect that excuse after a few Weeks or a month or two but not 4 years, hes lying to you. if you see a sad face, don't feel pity for him. and don't, i mean really don't wait for him to come back.move on I know how hard it would be, especially being engaged and all. that makes it a little harder. i know.what is he saying in his text messages. is he trying to keep you guessing and wait for him, to be done what ever he is doing? it just does not add up. i think he is playing you for a fool. i think he may have something on the side, and keeping you close by , gives him something to fall back on if it does not work out with this on. sorry! now how was your relationship up till then ? be honest dont lie to your self!
2006-06-14 19:23:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only option is to allow yourself you time to grieve and then jump back into the pond and make friends with new and better fish. Either he's found someone else or he's an immature little boy running from a committment. No matter which, he's the one who lost out, not you.
2006-06-14 19:17:57 · answer #3 · answered by anonymous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry, obviously you are in need of answers, I think that I would just let it go and try to move on. I know it is hard and you are problably hurting like hell right now but time will heal it. Remember, you cannot change what he does or says. You can only change you. Try to focus on something else and put your energy's elsewhere.
2006-06-14 18:24:53 · answer #4 · answered by blueyedfaerydoll 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a guy's point of view: He's probably met someone else. Hard to hear it, but probably true.
2006-06-14 18:16:27 · answer #5 · answered by MJK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. The right person is out there waiting for you!
2006-06-20 11:56:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋