he really nice and i've talked to him on the phone. he says he loves me, i love him too. we email eachother everyday and he im me every night!!!!!!! i really love him, and he said he wants to meet me and he's coming down to see me in july!!!!! im scared what am i to do???????? aslo we're going out !!!!!!
2006-06-14 10:49:54 · 12 answers · asked by buffybabe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he going to buy me a phone and he's paying for the bill, and he's going to send me pics of him!!!!!! i trust him!!!!! i call him at work!!!!! does he sound like a rapist?
2006-06-14 10:59:38 · update #1
R U CRAZY? You met him online and youve never seen him before? And your gonna meet him? How do you know hes not gonna rape you and kill you? HOW OLD ARE YOU? DO NOT MEET HIM!! Are you seriouse? And if your gonna be stupid enough to go and still meet him, than you better go with somebody!
But i would highly suggest that you dont.
Girl you just have to be very careful! Maybe he prolly found someone like yourself thats vulnerable and naive and he talks to you all sweet and sais nice things to you...but you have to be VERY VERY careful! he might tell you not to tell anybody that your gonna meet him, or hes coming to see you, if he tells you that, than that is a sign that he might be dangerouse. How old is he? or how old does he say he is? How do you know that those pix hes gonna send are not fake? Just be very careful, and i hope that he truly is a good guy and doesnt hurt you or rape you. This is very important, if your gonna go, go to the mall and be with somebody. Dont make him feel that your stupid and that watever he sias, your gonna roll with it. NO! Make him see that your smart, dont do everything he sais. Theres even a chance that he might pay a really good looking guy to come see you and you guys might go to a parking lot, and they just might throw you in the car and take you! You have to be very carefull! If you want me to investigate in him, than give me his ID or like SN! Just dont do anything stupid plz, your 17, your young, you dont know alot of things, he might be fooling you! Email me back.
2006-06-14 10:53:14 · answer #1 · answered by Happily Married 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't meet him by yourself and only meet in a public place. (Once you're in a public place, never go with him any place that is out of the public eye.) So many horror stories start "I met this guy on the Internet." The truth is that you don't know anything about him other than what he told you, which could be a complete lie. So protect yourself first and foremost, and if things work out... great. If not, you'll at least have been smart and not gotten yourself into a situation where you could get raped or even killed.
2006-06-14 17:56:53 · answer #2 · answered by BeenThere69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO NO NO!!!! I've read so many stories on girls that met guys over the internet and when they go to meet them they either kidnap them or Freakin rape them. And all the girls thought that he was nice and loved them. I would just tell him your not ready to meet him just yet because of and upcoming event. But if you don't wanna listen to me make sure that at least your friends and people that live around you know that he's coming so that IF something happens they know he's coming. Make sure people know his information! I would say no, but if you really really want to meet him make sure your community know who he is and when he's coming. hope it helped! `
2006-06-14 17:55:38 · answer #3 · answered by Kelly♥ [turn.n.burn] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick to guys in your area you're familiar with. Leave those kind of situations for adults. If you do end up meeting up with him, make it in a public place.. like a mall. Bringing someone else never hurts either.
2006-06-14 17:56:57 · answer #4 · answered by Milo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad bad bad bad bad idea!!! Internet predators are EVERYWHERE. And even if you don't expect him to be one, there is a big chance that he is.
I STRONGLY ADVISE AGAINST IT.
If you feel you MUST meet him, DON'T GO with out someone else!!!... preferably a guy like ur brother or something.
2006-06-14 17:59:28 · answer #5 · answered by Meesh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound young and he sounds like a predator. break off your relations or send your father down there to meet him...
2006-06-14 17:59:08 · answer #6 · answered by goraiders 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems abit dodgy but i think you should get a friend to follow you that day or nite but dont let him know just to be on the safe side
2006-06-14 17:58:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i hope your 18 or over. and he's not alot older. first tell people where your going. and bring a cell phone. don't go far. be soo careful. good luck.
2006-06-14 17:55:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEAH! THAT'S SO TOTALY LOVE. DO IT! DO IT! CUZ, YOUR IN LOVE..........(that's sarcasm btw) IF YER GONNA MEET HIM, MAKE DAMN SURE IT'S WITH A GROUP OF YOUR FRIENDS FIRST. YOU'VE GOTTA USE YOUR BRAIN EVERY ONCE IN A WHILE.
2006-06-14 17:59:01 · answer #9 · answered by squatting_llama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have someone else there when you meet him
for protection
2006-06-14 17:53:17 · answer #10 · answered by Amy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋