Do you feel mostly attracted to hard to gets or easy dates?

Answer 1

I appreciate the person, not the ease or lack thereof to get a date with them. The gaming aspect of this question seems a bit demeaning, actually.

If I ask a lady out and she is willing to go out, an artificial barrier of wanting not to seem too easy of a date is a big turn off. Seriously. Too many layers of thought involved. A date should be about having fun together, mutual exploration, getting some time together, not worrying about "do I move this pawn two spaces forward just to leave it exposed to her knight's attack?" (metaphor)

I hate being stood-up, I try always to be on-time or at least 5 minutes early. I expect to be called if something major comes up. Two something major cancellations and I probably will not call again.

Answer 2

Usually the more a guy is made to work, the more emotionally invested he becomes in the relationship. However, there is a point of diminishing returns where a woman can play TOO hard to get and will lose the guy's interest. Essentially, if there is no carrot at the end of the line, the horse doesn't move. But eventually the horse has to get a taste of the carrot, or even that will fail to motivate him to move.

Answer 3

Hard to gets. I like the challenge. But at the same time, I don't normally like to wait THAT long for someone... but it depends.

Answer 4

I'm guessing your the later