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How come guys are nice to girls they can't or don't want to sleep with, but treat the others like ****? It's been my observation, and experience that this happens. these are guys in their twenties, and younger, but still, why be nice to a girl just to get in her pants, and then treat her like it was her fault for letting u go all the way? Why can't u guys just be nice all the way through? Or just go out with those girls who only want sex? that's what u'all want, so why go after a girl who wants more, and make her give it up, and then not give her what she wants? I know this guy who dated this older female, and the girl wanted a realtionship with him, but all he wanted was sex, he was a teen, she was in her twenties...but he didn't tell her he ONLY wanted sex, so she gave it up thinking she had a boyfriend, she liked him at this point...so when he said it wasn't working out, she hung on, and she became his booty call, then they finally called it quits..it fizzled as fast as it sizzled,

2006-06-14 10:43:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

Then there was this other guy, he swept a girl off her feet(for 1 month), TOTALLY nice to her, then he got mean, he couldn't get in her pants, but still wanted her around. He kept giving her mixed signals, one day he'd like her, next day he wouldn't, so EVERY OTHTER day, he'd be nice to her. Then he'd tell her to leave him alone, but he'd call her everyday and ask if they could hanga out. They had dinners together, but to him, they were just friends. She'd shower him with affection, he wouldn't return any, but he'd cook for her, and be a good friend--lend her an ear, and help her with problems. Well...all this went on for9 months, then he decided he wanted a relationship, so he asked her out, and all was well after that. My question on this one. why did he tell her he liked her, only to put her through 9 months of emotional hell? Why did he treat her heart like a yo-yo? Please give me honest answers in relation to both of these questions. THANkS! It's MUCH appreciated!

2006-06-14 10:51:08 · update #1

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You question is moot! It takes two to tango in a relationship and if one isn't getting what they need then there needs to be some serious discussions. If after that they still aren't getting what they want then it's time to hit the eject button and move on. You say guys that only want sex should go after girls that only want sex, well you tell us where those women are! 99.9% of you seem to have a problem admitting that your interested in that kind of relationship. For men sex is a pleasurable fun activity for women it's some big emotional thing. For some women once they give it up they think "we had sex he'll be around all the time now!" Wrong! Men are thinking "That was fun hope we can hook up again sometime" Of course when a guy wants to get serious he'll let you know it but until then it's just sex. Dating is like a crap shoot, sometimes you can see your potential mate wants nothing more than a booty call and sometime you can't.

2006-06-19 15:22:53 · answer #1 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 4 1

Well depending on the age of the guy all he wants is sex get over it. when hes at the peck of his sexuality then gues what. where do you think we get the saying "Horn dog" from.
But in all honesty not every guy wants just sex, there are a few of us out there that really do want a relationship, maybe there are some past issues that cause guy#2 to treat the woman like a yp-yo. Maybe he has trust issues. Did he have a happy childhood, where both of his parents aroud. Did he have a possitive male role model growing up?
Maybe he was testing to see how much crap she would take and once he realized that she wasn't going anywhere, he realized that it was time to start a really deep and meaningful realtionship.

Then again some are dogs and only want a bone.

2006-06-14 11:00:08 · answer #2 · answered by Chad B 2 · 0 0

Why do girls think that guys won't be guys? If a girl "gives it up" that is her choice and it IS "her fault." Sex will never make a guy love a girl. It's sex thats all. If a girl wants a relationship she should be completely satisfied with the relationship BEFORE she "gives it up." Some girls are so stupid.

And an answer to your second question...
Why did she stay with him for nine months of hell? The guy was an *sshole. She new this from the first time he was mean to her. It is her own damn fault.

2006-06-14 10:49:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Here's the problem... women like games. They expect a man to know exactly what they want when they want it… this will never happen. Approaching a women that you don’t know is like trying to twist a rubrics cube into place, because no matter what way you twist it, it always seems to be wrong.

Word of advice… Great players always adapt to the game, and until women quit playing games, they’ll continue to be played.

If you don’t want played, be straight forward with a guy. Tell him what you’re looking for. Don’t let him keep guessing.

2006-06-17 09:50:11 · answer #4 · answered by Will 2 · 0 0

Most guys are the same. They want sex and will do and say anything to get it. Girls, if a guy wants a meaningful relationship with you he is not gonna make sex the most important thing. He just wants to enjoy his time with you. Remember girls you are in control of your own body no one can take anything unless you freely give it

2006-06-14 10:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Why lengthen some thing fantastic! it really is like going to ascertain a kick *** action picture and the previews very last a nil.5 hour. No! you in reality bypass for it! If went on a date with you, there'd be a message on you voice mail the minute you walk by the door! i'm no longer being needy or determined, I merely quite like you, and choose you to understand it!

2016-10-14 04:13:50 · answer #6 · answered by gaffke 4 · 0 0

first of all I have to let you know that I have never been after sex even when I was younger... but I always disliked easy girls... and I know that most guys dislike easy girls... there were girls who wanted to be cool and go out with guys and go to bed with them... and then after that things changed... I had a friend he was good looking and nice guy, he had a girl friend till she did not sleep with him, he loved her , but as soon as they had sex.. things happened he did not know why??? he told me that he can not look at her face anymore... she is different.
that is why i always tell all my good girl friends that wait till they get marry...
so do not give up yourself...

2006-06-14 16:17:26 · answer #7 · answered by Math 1 · 0 0

Not all guys are like that...
Im nice to EVERY SINGLE GIRL whether i can sleep with them or not. it depends on the guy, some guys are nice to the girls they can sleep with until they sleep wit them then they are like **** it and they become *** holes, not all guys do that

2006-06-14 10:47:06 · answer #8 · answered by Bobs Mustang 3 · 0 0

Guys don't know what they want that's why it's always changing. They are like little kids and they don't grow up fast either.

2006-06-14 10:47:33 · answer #9 · answered by Ready2Go 4 · 0 0

huh

2006-06-14 10:46:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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