How come guys are nice to girls they can't or don't want to sleep with, but treat the others like ****? It's been my observation, and experience that this happens. these are guys in their twenties, and younger, but still, why be nice to a girl just to get in her pants, and then treat her like it was her fault for letting u go all the way? Why can't u guys just be nice all the way through? Or just go out with those girls who only want sex? that's what u'all want, so why go after a girl who wants more, and make her give it up, and then not give her what she wants? I know this guy who dated this older female, and the girl wanted a realtionship with him, but all he wanted was sex, he was a teen, she was in her twenties...but he didn't tell her he ONLY wanted sex, so she gave it up thinking she had a boyfriend, she liked him at this point...so when he said it wasn't working out, she hung on, and she became his booty call, then they finally called it quits..it fizzled as fast as it sizzled,
2006-06-14
10:43:25
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Then there was this other guy, he swept a girl off her feet(for 1 month), TOTALLY nice to her, then he got mean, he couldn't get in her pants, but still wanted her around. He kept giving her mixed signals, one day he'd like her, next day he wouldn't, so EVERY OTHTER day, he'd be nice to her. Then he'd tell her to leave him alone, but he'd call her everyday and ask if they could hanga out. They had dinners together, but to him, they were just friends. She'd shower him with affection, he wouldn't return any, but he'd cook for her, and be a good friend--lend her an ear, and help her with problems. Well...all this went on for9 months, then he decided he wanted a relationship, so he asked her out, and all was well after that. My question on this one. why did he tell her he liked her, only to put her through 9 months of emotional hell? Why did he treat her heart like a yo-yo? Please give me honest answers in relation to both of these questions. THANkS! It's MUCH appreciated!
2006-06-14
10:51:08 ·
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