I am sixteen should i be talking to a guy older than 21?

Question

lately i have been talking to him as more than a friend. What do you think i should do, if your nay on it why ? details please on what to do and why and if something else tries to be done? THANKSSS

Answer 1

If he is normal, between puberty and age 25 he thinks about sex every 15 seconds, unless he's playing a REALLY intense chess game or there is a NCAA final 4 basketball game on TV. At age 25 - 35 (more or less), men slow down and think about sex every 30 seconds. At ages 35 - 45, every minute or two. Past 45, every 5 minutes. So, he's thinking about sex. Question is, is he thinking about anything else?

Ask yourself a question - how many other friends do you have that age? Lots? None?

Ask him a question - "Bob, we seem to be getting on really well. Would you like to go to church with me and my family this Sunday?"

If he backs off, all he wants is sex. Drop him like a hot rock.

If he leaps at the chance, he's serious and doesn't mind who knows.

If he is serious, you have to ask yourself - why couldn't he find someone his own age, (+/-) 3 years?

Answer 2

i would say at 16 no way, only because he has had more life experience then you and can't want anything more from you because of the age difference then S-E-X!! and OK i don't know hI'm but you think to yourself, if he had a daughter one day, im sure he wouldn't want her to date and 21 year old at 16 because he is a man by law and your still considered a child or dependent, also you need someone that you can grow with experience things together, although you may have good conversation "Now" trust it may not last that long, ask him why he like you, and if he says something to the effect that you cool or he like talking to ya etc, something quick that he didn't pour much thought into, run like hell that's a sign of things to come, although boys your age may not be as mature as you are, still stick too them cause heel men/boys mature slower then females anyway, that's a know fact,so good luck!!!

Answer 3

I think you should get the ok from your parents,you could really get this young man in a lot of trouble. The law says he is to old for you. If you like this guy you should let him move on until your older. I'm sure you wouldn't want to see him go to prison for 20yrs. Enjoy your young life while you can.

Answer 4

No. He is too old for you. Enjoy your youth - don't grow up so fast!
There is something wrong with a man who wants to talk to a 16 year old! I believe it's also against the law in most states!

Answer 5

As long as it doesn't get physical, and you both understand where you want the relationship to go, then I don't see a problem with it. You just need to make sure that he respects your limits. If you have fun together, then why end it? Enjoy being 16, just stay safe.

Answer 6

That is the most common mistake that the girl makes...put in this way....would you like be in love with a guy that cant have a relationship with a girl of his same age???open your eyes...people like that love manipulates other people...exp..."im older you are young and morron...you have to do what ever that I ask for"..be carefull dont be stupid!

Answer 7

In NH "it" is legal, because you 16. He just wants sex. My friend just turned 18 and all the sudden she only had sex with 23 olds and older. No relationship need.

Answer 8

Personally I dont think you should be talking this MAN. First of all it rape. You may be a very beautiful girl, but ask yourslef why this guy cant find someone around his age?

Answer 9

IS very wrong .......................And is Ilegal in US of America.
Tell your parents about it.......Or a sister or brother!.......if you are the only one.......Tell somebody that you trust!
Now!....at 21 o more of age!........guys ,just what girls for fun..................He will used you...............you will not be the only one................So,what you can DO!.........take it easy.........At your age,you need to have many friends.
maybe you feel lonely.............But you are smart...........Tell him that you just want to be a friend..............If he say YES!........good..........But the moment that he trie to seduce you again...............let him go......(seduce is like,he will like to buy you present,touch you in inocent way, call you and tell you that he love you and miss you constaly(make it you feel guilty) o sorry for him)...........Be smart and learn more about guys.........Your best friend ...your father....