Would you consider this cheating? I am a LESBIAN... I have been with the same woman, happily for 4 years... I was at work and a young guy came in and wanted me to make him some bussines cards for a lawn mowing service, so I gave him my number and told him to call me in about two week sand we could set up a time for him to come and do some work on my lawn... and around the house(painting and cleaning the gutters, I just moved in)... so he called me(at work) and asked me if I would be willing to meet him for lunch... So we went to the mexican resturant, and chatted... He payed.. that was it.. My Girlfriend is really upset and said I cheated on her, I just figured I met a new friend, What do you think?
2006-06-14 10:29:08 · 11 answers · asked by kityjane2 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I told her about the lunch, at first I hid it from her b/c I knoew she eould jump to that concl. but I told her b/c I had nothing to hide... he did try to hit on my, and I told him I was involoved.
2006-06-14 10:35:41 · update #1
Have sex with him and maybe you will be converted, get married and have beautiful children that share your genetics. You will never have that in a same sex relationship. I'm sure he wont mind if you bring her in every once in a while for a little 1 on 2. Sounds like you may be a victum of oppertunity.
2006-06-14 10:37:24 · answer #1 · answered by liberal hater 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. You didn't cheat. But are you truly a Lesbian or do you go either way? It would be the same as my significant other to accuse me of cheating because I had lunch with a guy. Doesn't event make sense.
2006-06-14 17:44:06 · answer #2 · answered by bay area curious george 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. This was not cheating. This was just going out to a lunch and a nice guy paid. Your lover is making a big deal out of nothing.
2006-06-14 17:35:07 · answer #3 · answered by I'm all yours 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didn't cheat at all. All you did was go on a friendly lunch with a *guy* who has become your friend. Just simply explain to her that it is nothing more than a harmless friendship and maybe even invite her to go to dinner with you and him and he could even bring a friend. That way, it's more like a friends night out than anything. She loves you and you love her, she's just afraid of losing you, but just sit down and explain that he is just a friend. Maybe if they meet, she'll see that more? Hope that helps and good luck to you :)
2006-06-14 17:36:34 · answer #4 · answered by mamimi_18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wasnt cheating. If it was, then there would have been some flirting or something. But since your lesbian, its crazy to call it cheating in the first place if its a guy. If you girlfriend trusts you, then she would believe you and understand. Good luck, honey.
2006-06-14 17:34:41 · answer #5 · answered by Boo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't cheat your just working on some free lawn service.Tell you love and she has nothing to worry about unless your feeling something for this man.
2006-06-14 17:36:16 · answer #6 · answered by NESHA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are the only one who can answer this question, did you feel guilty during lunch or like you were hiding something? if not i think you are ok if so you may want to ask yourself what you are really up to.
2006-06-14 17:38:53 · answer #7 · answered by mjcrzy1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope u didnt cheat, but u might wanna tell him you're lez. Then he wont try to make a move
2006-06-14 17:33:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did she find out about lunch?
2006-06-14 17:33:01 · answer #9 · answered by JRICH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not cheating but do the guy a favor and dont string him along
2006-06-14 17:35:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋