Including physically, but also personality wise.. What are your top 5 things to have as your ideal girl.
2006-06-14 10:28:44 · 17 answers · asked by Abstract Expression 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A good personallity is a must! If after you get married and you turn into a nag, or a pain, then it will be a sufferable marriage, but if you have a great personallity, then there is a good possibility that you wont be like that.
Body is optional. With time and kids, your body will undergo changes for the worse, so whats in a body but the mind, and the personallity.
Every pretty girl, loses her looks when they get older...its called maturity.. (Though, some with plastic surgery will keep it or enhance it, but, its not them, its vanity then).
A natural, wholesome girl is the best thing in life! Some one you can take home to his mother! Not much make up on, no phoniness about her, just what you see is what you got, and thats the best type of marrying kind around!
A girl that is "high and mighty" about herself, is a loser and will get a loser husband. If she puts on "airs", then she is not true to herself, others and everyone will tire of her phoniness eventually, and she will lose her friends that she ever made.
I wish you well...
Jesse
2006-06-14 10:51:10 · answer #1 · answered by x 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Well, first you must understand that men are physical creatures and the first thing that makes a woman irresistable is her apprearance. This doesn't necessarily mean that you have to be drop dead gorgeous or a model type, only that you are what "he" see's as attractive to him. Now, once the two of you have gotten together, if you open your mouth and a lack of intelligence shows through your conversations, he'll stick around just to see if he can "get laid". If he senses that you are materialistic, that's a turn-off, but unfortunately men will throw their money your way in hopes that he can, again, "get laid".
If you are looking for a long-term relationship, this is my opinion and what I look for in a woman I would like to be with long-term.
This is by no means in any particular order, but what makes a woman irresistable to me.
Compassionate, intelligent, attractive (in my eyes), romantic (receiving as well as giving), caring, giving, easy going and non-argumentive, hates drama and doesn't create any, etc.
I think you get the idea. Now if a guy doesn't call you back or seems to have lost interest I think its a mistake for the woman to always assume what comes naturally. Men are dogs! This can be true in some cases, but keep in mind, if a man is attracted to you and nothing has been revealed, so far, that he doesn't like about you, then he will continue to call and see you again. What so many women fail to understand is that a lot of times when a man decides that he is no longer interested, many times it is because there was something he didn't like. It could be the sex, how you get along when together, things you have in common, maybe too clingy and/or needy. In my experience, when I have been attracted to someone I always wanted to continue to see and be with her. If there is something about her that I am turned off by then my attraction will fade and I have to let her know I am no longer interested. Its not because we already had sex and I have conquered. It is because there is something that I am not attracted to for whatever reason it may be. Don't get too comfortable in relationship as time goes on. This is a problem I have encountered in the past. They feel that you are now their's and they stop doing the things that attracted them to me in the first place. Relationships are complicated, but they don't have to be. I know I've rambled on and might have made it more confusing, but I hope you find the answer you are looking for. Take care and good luck in your search.
2006-06-14 10:48:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. A welcoming smile.
2. A flirtatious twist
3. Affectionate
4. Adventurous
5. Fun loving
2006-06-14 10:33:27 · answer #3 · answered by bay area curious george 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Great smile
2. Confident and generally happy (nobody likes an insecure depresser)
3. Sense of Humor (nothing worse than cracking a joke and getting that blank "huh?" look.
4. Active and outgoing - pick a hobby besides "me"
5. Honesty
2006-06-14 10:35:48 · answer #4 · answered by texaspicker0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love a girl who is funny, sweet, cares about others, able to carry on a conversation, and a woman who wants to please her man. As long as that man is the one. None of that crap where I did something for my man to make him happy.
As far as physically, I don't want a skin and bones type chick. Just a lady who is fit and has some curves. I love a nice looking ***. Fine looking legs. Beautiful eyes. A kiss to take your breath away. yeah guys dont say that one, but I only had one girl take my breath away and I will never forget it.
2006-06-14 10:37:09 · answer #5 · answered by sttng2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is so uncomplicated as on your smile! a woman, even a smooth lady has such diverse distinct seems, counting on the way she smiles at a guy, or a smooth guy. there is the flirtatious smile, the naive smile, the Oh-my-God smile, the please-please-please? smile; and typically even the sorrowful smile receives a guy/boy to pay interest. if you're even fairly captivating, you won't be able to bypass incorrect donning a grin! and that i keep in mind that someone as wonderful as you have not got any problem in that area, so i do not even opt to choose you success, except in battling the adult males off!!
2016-10-30 21:54:54 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first she has to have a sense of humor also a cute smile and yeah most guys like a women wit a gret body a good or great personality for sure for sure also just a women being herself but member 1st impressions are a plus
2006-06-14 10:34:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many guys do like women with long straight hair not to mention a thin body.
2006-06-14 10:32:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no make-up, healthy hair, health skin, small frame, and an athletic body. Oooooooooo-yeah, I'm in heaven.
2006-06-14 13:38:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A nice ***... a pretty face should be attached to it...
But a nice *** goes a looooooooonnnnnggg way
Hopefully we don't see "GROSS OLD MAN" on this thread as well..
Look out for WoodWorkingMenace... he is also known as "Jesse"
Gross old dude...
2006-06-14 10:30:58 · answer #10 · answered by Marc H 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋