2006-06-14 10:26:55 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cuz he can go to jail for raping you - DUH!!!
2006-06-14 10:28:55 · answer #1 · answered by Mike S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, what he did was illegal in most countries. If the Police were to find him, he would be charged in many juridstictions of statutory rape. You may think you know what you were doing, but the law and many centuries of experience says otherwise. He probably knows this and is now worried about the consequences.
There is also the factor that 18-year old boys who are interested in 14-year old girls are typically often unable to relate to women of their own age. You are probably quite mature compared to boys your own age, but compared to 18-year olds, that would be a push.
As a result of that, it is likely - although not knowing him, nobody can be sure - that is sexually inexperienced and incapable of relating to you as an individual.
Sorry this is such a downer of an answer, but what happened is a bit crappy in the big scheme of things. If you didn't use a condom, go get checked out, and realise that life - and your sex life - is not a race. You can take time to find the people who can relate to you, your needs, and you can do all that in years to come.
2006-06-14 10:34:26 · answer #2 · answered by Paul R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't be be sleeping with guys at 14 and he sure as hell shouldn't be sleeping with you. the crime is called statutory rape. the reason it's a crime is that at 18 he's a man and fully understands the consequences of his actions.You on the other hand do not.. The law exists to protect you often times from yourself. Since the law does exist - use it & have him arrested .
I asume you slept with him for emotional reasons and he - his lies to the contrary - slept with you for solely physical reasons. So there is your conflict ; he wants nothing to do with you. emotionally.
Someone once said that good judgement is the result of experience and experience is the result of bad judgement.. You will be having sex for the rest of your life -50 ,60, 70 years worth .it won't hurt to wait another
couple of years before you try it again.
2006-06-14 10:47:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He´s probably acting weird cause either he just saw you as an easy lay and doesn´t wanna have to see you again but most likely becaue if he´s 18 and your 14 then it´s considered rape and he can go to jail for many years.
2006-06-16 06:15:42 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica Cohen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably weird because he knows what he did was wrong. At 14 you are way, way too young to be having sex with anyone. At 18 he should know better then to have sex with a 14 year old girl.
2006-06-14 10:30:35 · answer #5 · answered by i_am_the_dida 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We must ask ourselfs a question in regards to this. Is he acting weird because of the rape charge, or is he a frequent predator of young girls, not yet schooled in the ways a sick, disgusting, immoral man can take away the only thing truly precious to a young woman? He doesn't want to know you, because he got what he wanted. Hang him up to the police.
2006-06-14 10:37:31 · answer #6 · answered by maddoctor77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you mean by "acting weird." If he is nervous and jittery, it probably means he's afraid of going to jail for statutory rape. If he just doesn't act the same toward you or seem to show the same emotions that got you into bed, you probably got played.
2006-06-14 10:31:31 · answer #7 · answered by BeenThere69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beyond the obvious issue of age, I think he is just dreading the responsibility that comes with having sex with another person (he may not be that interested in having a relationship with you, but no guy will say no to sex). This would be his preparation to saying "Sayonara" or maybe pulling a disappearing act.
Don't be surprised. And next time don't be so dumb. You are too young to be having sex.
2006-06-14 10:32:21 · answer #8 · answered by Haze_ram 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must be wierd to sleep with an underage girl. If he is 18 then he KNOWS it is illegal to sleep with you and when you are a bit older, you will understand why it's illegal. What a jerk! I would never bother with him again if I were you. In fact if he bothers you anymore, tell the police what he did and they will take care of him.
2006-06-14 10:30:19 · answer #9 · answered by Ready2Go 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look he probably just realized that if he pisses you off, BAM, statutory rape. So called adult 18, child 14, no matter how fine others may think you are, you are a minor.
2006-06-14 10:34:03 · answer #10 · answered by Uwill B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you were wrong to sleep with a guy at 14. you should have waited until marraige. he could have been flirting with you, just so you would do him. Now where has it gotten you? no where. Im sorry, but that was a BIG mistake on your part. you are to young.
2006-06-14 10:30:00 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋