I KNOW THE WHOLE KEEPING UP ON THE S*X , AND THE DAILY BJ'S.. BUT WHAT IS IT THEY TRUELY LOOK FOR?
2006-06-14 10:25:55 · 32 answers · asked by Andrea G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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ALSO I KNOW YOU HAVE TO COOK... KEEP YOUR DOWNSTAIRS NICE.. AND DON'T BE A NAG~
2006-06-14 10:31:44 · update #1
Sense of humour.... passionate... loving... caring... sensitive... gorgeous eyes... beautiful smile.... kind... considerate... somebody who is able to make decisions for themselves.. somebody who is independant that doesn't have to rely on a 'spouse' for everything.... someone who knows how to laugh and have a good time.... no pressure... understanding... and somebody who won't try to change every little thing... accept the person for who they are.. it works both ways.. oh, and small breasts (for me anyway! LOL)
Good luck!
2006-06-14 10:30:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I actually find this question amusing. Surely, if an attraction is there between 2 people, and they become a couple, a sexual drive will be there too. But to ask what does a man look for, I would say that there are those who are players, and will take anything/anyone for granted, and they are only interested in what they want. Then there are a vast load of other men, who will be interested in developing a relationship based on what both partners want. Sure, there are basic physical/sexual needs , but my honest answer would be that most men would want companionship.
2006-06-14 10:36:22 · answer #2 · answered by Ch3mic@l Broth3r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I look for a girl who has a good attitude, is secure about her herself, smiles often, good conversationalist, intelligent, ambitious and a good heart.
I would bet most guys would draw from that list of attributes.
I would give up daily bjs in a second to be with somebody like I described. It's not all about sex. You should be compatible sexually though.
2006-06-14 10:31:14 · answer #3 · answered by frontmann2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone who can be a best friend, business partner and nurturing mother. May not seem that way in the begining but these are traits that are looked for when contemplating a relationship - but if you wanted to know what we look for in the spur of the moment, a pulse!
2006-06-14 10:32:55 · answer #4 · answered by awfay2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First trait, easy to communicate with. Someone who's willing to talk things over without being biased or closed minded. Then, someone who is honest, compassionate, loyal and trustworthy. The rest becomes strictly physical but without these traits or qualities being present then the chances of an LTR would be zero.
2006-06-14 10:31:22 · answer #5 · answered by fun_guy_otown 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the man.
Daily BJs would be nice, though
2006-06-14 10:29:31 · answer #6 · answered by Grendle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all your getting the whole thing wrong.
keeping up with sex and giving blow jobs will not keep the man.
It only shows the man that your easy and cheep, don't bring yourself low to a man.
A true man love's pride, dignity and cleanliness in a woman and how she keeps herself.
A man love's when a woman look good on every occasion even when your going to your bed.
we need to realize that man love comfort and we are here to comfort them yes but the look for manners, respect, loyalty, don't leave out the truth but that's complicated so let's not get into that.
A man love's a woman that can take time out for them when they are in distress,
A man love to be comforted and you need to know that it's not about sex o.k young lady keep your head up and be all that you can be to your man and honestly cleanliness is first and preperation keep your home clean keep yourself clean, constantly bathing your a woman and you need to prepare for everything because your a woman.
2006-06-14 10:39:36 · answer #7 · answered by cute_girl_shantie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone to share a lifetime with. My wife has a great personality laughs at my lame jokes. She makes me laugh. She is someone I know I will die old with. We have been together for 14 yrs, Not everyday is like the first but some times when you have those days its all special again.
2006-06-14 10:31:26 · answer #8 · answered by hammervic72 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are getting DAILY BJS! Why was I not informed! =P
But seriously, it's hard to give a straight answer because every guy wants something different. A good bet, however, is that he likes TV, sleeping, good food, and sex.
2006-06-14 10:29:27 · answer #9 · answered by Dave A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some one who will still be home when I i get off work, or be there when I have a day off. If you move in and start to take care of the house we won't notice if the s*x or oral starts to taper off. Just don't try to be something for some one else just be your self and if the guys can't take it then move on to another. be you that is what caught our eye in the first place
2006-06-14 10:31:20 · answer #10 · answered by Chad B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋