Does money matter to girls when they meet a guy?

Question

I'm gonna be rich one day, because I want to! But for now, I'm living simply, and wondering if girls take a guys current finances into consideration. BE HONEST, seeing as I don't know who you are anyways.

Answer 1

Hi

I am going to be totally honest with you, It should not be a big part of your relationship but it does have its place in the relationship. A girl wants a guy that can help contribute into the relationship she does not want some dead beat who she has to take care of. She wants a guy that can actually take her out every once in awhile and buy her a few nice things on special occasions and I am sorry a dead beat can not do all those things. I am far from a gold digger but I want a man who can take care of me......physically, financially, and emotionally.

Answer 2

Money is not that important if he's a decent guy. You say you live simply, most people do, and as long as you aren't begging money off the girl for dates and such, I don't see where it's a big deal. Be yourself. Treat her with respect. Very few people were born rich so living simply while you are attaining your goals isn't new to many. Good Luck,

Answer 3

Women want security plain and simple. What woman doesn't? What woman wants a relationship with a dead beat, out of work, no money having scrub? Let's get real. Finances are a part of life! Now gold diggers? They're in an entirely different category! Avoid them at all cost! Literally!

Answer 4

IMO, it isn't so much to do with the finances as it is the will to make money.
It is a little important that a guy have his own money, in honesty. I wouldn't mind so much that the guy didn't have money to spend on me, just so long as he had his own money to spend on himself and didn't try to be a bum and borrow money from me all the time. What also matters is if someone is willing to get a job, work hard, and not be lazy. If a guy has no money, no job, no will to go get one, and bums money off me he is history. But does a guy have to be rich? No. Just willing to get off his *** and make something of himself.

Answer 5

First of all, you won't be rich just because you want. Hell, who doesn't want that, and not everyone is rich. Second, yes girls love money. Why don't you see rich guys with ugly girls? The hotter girls are, the more materialistic they are. Just read some of these answers.

Answer 6

It matters, do to the fact that when a female chooses a partner that has potential to be a husband,he should provide the same or more that she can provide for (financially) in the relationship..... Some of us want to share our live with someone that is financially stable and a loving a caring partner.

Answer 7

well don't do not take money in consideration, i take direction in consideration. a guy can be a newspaper delivery boy as long as hes in school or has a gaol or direction in life. i don't want to be with a loser that i have to pay for all the time, and have kids with someone who can support them, but alot of girls do care just about money

Answer 8

Financially stable/responsible, but not rich. As long as a guy can pay his own bills and have a little left over to play with. I, personally am not all about the money.

Answer 9

It all depends on the lady.

I personally don’t have a problem with a man who is not financially well off. I’m more interested in his abilities to work the finances that he has. How well does he handle his bills? Is he stable and on his own? Or is he living off of his mother for countless years? I’m more interested in his personality and his ability to grow and become what he desires to be.

Be blessed.

Answer 10

Some women are gold diggers and all that matters to them is money. But, personally I like to pay my own way and as long as I have money I'm not worried about if your broke or not cuz i just wanna have a good time.