i've been a realationship with a pretty good guy for 4 years and last year he went to jail for five months while he was way my best friend and began to have an affair. when my boy-friend got out of jail my best friend was scared and he took off for a year now he's back and my boy-friend has forgiven him and has let my friend move in. but now the affair has started back up again and i don't know what to do i really have fallen for my best friend but don't want to hurt the guy i'm with pleas help
2006-06-14 10:14:30 · 2 answers · asked by buttersweet98 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do what your heart tells you to do
2006-06-15 16:10:41 · answer #1 · answered by burnrock03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say why he went to jail, so don't know if it is something simple or something for you to be concerned about. Your best friend took advantage of you in a moment of weakness while your boyfriend was away, feelings you may have developed may be false. Did you think about him or miss him while he was gone, or only when he came back? If you thought about him the entire time, or most of it, your feelings may be genuine and it will be time to choose between the two, before you lose both. I would suggest that you choose the one who is the most supportive of you, as that will help the relationship to last and grow. Good luck.
2006-06-17 17:34:32 · answer #2 · answered by psycmikev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋