Me and my BF have been together for bout a month now and everything is going good.but... im moving away for the rest of the summer and im scared when i move further away from him if we will not have our strong relationship like we do have now. i mean we might not talk as much or what. what should i do plz help right now he is in the army. what should i do i mean i love him do death. should i worry about this situation or should i avoid it and try 2 call him all the time? HELP!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-14 10:08:45 · 19 answers · asked by AndrewsGurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I'm pretty sure that if you two truly love each other, that you can work through a little thing like a month long "vacation." If the two of you are meant to be together it will happen. I have a girlfriend too who is doing the same thing. I will be waiting for her when she comes back, and I know she will be waiting for me. I'll call her as often as I can, and I would hope that she would do the same. As said before, the will be a test of my girlfriend's and my love. I have no worries about it at all. Besides, if I can't handle being away from her for a measly month, then how will I handle being away from her for a whole year when I deploy? I love my girlfriend with all of my heart. If I had to walk the rest of the way back from Iraq just to be with her, I would do it. So here's some advice: If you feel like you truly love your boyfriend, then waiting is not a bad idea at all. Just think, when you finally do see him, it'll be worth the wait. Have fun with your one month getaway, and I hope you two have a happy life together.
--Andrew -- Brittany's Guy
2006-06-14 16:07:32 · answer #1 · answered by nfantre2003 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
one thing you should always remember is that , and i have to use this myself, is that distance will bring people closer if they are ment to be. If he is already in the army you pobably do not see much of eachother now so there willl not be much change, except for where y'all see eachother now!!! keep the phone calls strong and love even stronger, also remember it has only been a month better to see how the change will effect the relationship now than when y'all have been together like a year or so!!!
2006-06-14 10:14:33 · answer #2 · answered by wetherill_33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey if he is in the army you better get used to being apart, Mission comes first, my husaband and i are seperated right now for the next 4 months and it isn't the first time we've been apart for a long period of time, we're both in the military. If you are both able to stay faithful through the long seperations you you know your relationship is stronge enough good luck
2006-06-14 10:15:30 · answer #3 · answered by green_eyez1004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Distance either does one of two things: Makes the heart grow fonder, or drives people apart. You know what? This is actually a good test and a good indicator as to whether or not the two of you really do "care" about each other as much as you "say" you do. The best thing the both of you can two, is to stay in touch as much as feasible. Also, don't over do it!
2006-06-14 10:16:46 · answer #4 · answered by Kooties 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have only been together then chances are the relationship is not as strong as you think. Your best bet is to keep the lines of communication open, but DO NOT CALL EVERYDAY. The last thing you want to be seen as is needy.
I am not sure if you are spiritual, but I think if the relationship is meant to be, then it will work out.
2006-06-14 10:14:52 · answer #5 · answered by hotsauce22777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never seen or heard of a long distance relationship working out. This especially true in America where we are not very patient and are quick to jump at new opportunities. Be open, be honest with him and yourself but prepare yourself for the statistical eventuality. Good luck.
2006-06-14 10:12:32 · answer #6 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is in the Army, he will be too busy to want to keep up with your life...
He may be sent to Iraq and may be in for the long haul. Dont try to question his motives, because he may not need the hassle.
Keep your love going, and when you get back for the summer, he will still be there... If he has to go into combat...he will be a changed person anyways, so your love will sustain him, when he goes..
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-06-14 10:12:18 · answer #7 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first week will be rough, the 2nd week will be less rough, the 3rd week, you will have BOTH met summer loves and have a ball. Get going, don't waste the 1st two weeks. You are far too young to write this stuff...enjoy life now while you can. Good luck
2006-06-14 10:11:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, come down. I know what to do but first relex and come down. Tell him you are moving away and you don't want to. But maybe, on internet or games you 2 can chat with each other! Or maybe, even call each other. E-mail me if it won't work or for more imformation at dotdotsuzhou@yahoo.com
2006-06-14 10:12:28 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah <33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u could write 2 him or call him while u r away. (just trust him). plus it would b good 4 u 2 b apart 4 awhile
2006-06-14 10:13:37 · answer #10 · answered by savannah♥[MCRmy] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋