Advice - What to do?
Can anyone understand the female brain?
Here's the thing. Liked this girl last year, she knew I liked her, and i asked her out sometime, she said yes, but then changed her mind, and said no, and just wanted to be friends. That was like 6 months ago, and when I've seen her, we haven't like really talked, and she just used to ignore me. Now I have a girlfriend, whose one of her friends, and everytime she sees me, she starts a conversation, and we talk loads... I'm confused! We were really good friends before, should we become friends again, even though she didn't talk to me for months?
2006-06-14 10:05:48 · 17 answers · asked by La Souffle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like she wasn't particularly interested in you, yet wanted you to be interested in her. When she lost that she decided she really was interested after all.
Understanding the female brain...think me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me maybe you.
2006-06-14 10:09:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
what it sounds liek is that she felt uncomfortable with you likeing her, and now that she knows you like someone else she's comfortable around you again. the girls brain isn't as complicated as you think it is. it's just you need to analize whats going on a few times before you get it. it's kinda like reading a book, while playing a video game eating dinner and talking on both the phone and IM. it hard to do but it can be done! ;p.
2006-06-14 17:10:03 · answer #2 · answered by emele ana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i defintaly think that you two should talk again sometime all it takes is time before someone sees that they are missing something!!! Do you think that she knew her friend liked you and that is why she backed off? sometimes you have to look into things a little deeper and sometimes you have to stop looking so deep. but i think you should give the friendship a try again, but only befriends because you have a gf now and don't wan to ruin anything there!!!
2006-06-14 17:11:09 · answer #3 · answered by wetherill_33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like that now you have a "girlfriend," that she is more comfortable with you. Perhaps it was (before) that she was not interested in you in "that way," and now that the pressure is OFF of her (as in being your girlfriend) ... you two now can be friends again.
Don't pursue her as a "girlfriend." Enjoy her as a friend-friend, and things will probably run much smoother for you, both!
2006-06-14 17:10:47 · answer #4 · answered by Mustang_68_Coupe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They want what they can't have. You were available before so she didn't care, but now that you're taken suddenly you have become appealing to her.
There is nothing wrong with beind friends with her. Just don't let her walk all over you, and make sure it's a fair friendship.
2006-06-14 17:08:54 · answer #5 · answered by aqsgtriad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since you were good friends maybe you two should talk again. I've been in your situation before and I know how confused you are. Are you afraid of her hurting you again? Talk to her but don't get attached. Good-Luck!
2006-06-14 17:10:27 · answer #6 · answered by babysnare_09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good way to get a girl, is "have" a girl...
Girls always want something they cant have. And, if you drop this girlfriend of yours, then that girl has won!
She is only doing this to get you away from her girlfriend... so, dont be a sucker and keep the one you have...
This one didnt want you, and if you drop your girl for her, after she has you, she will drop you too...just for the fun of it...(I have seen this so often its tragic for the kids)..
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-06-14 17:09:13 · answer #7 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay clear of this wacko...she only wants you back on her yoyo string. She is upset that she no longer feels that she has you dangling. Friends???? I don't think she was ever your friend. And you can take it to the bank that she will tell your GF any and everything you say to her, trying to break you up for no reason but to satisfy her sick urge to have you back on her string....STAY AWAY.
2006-06-14 17:09:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sound like one of those high school things... she probably feels less awkward towards you now that you found someone else and not feeling that she hurt you or something like that. don' worry about it you guys will be friends again.
2006-06-14 17:09:58 · answer #9 · answered by sublimelvr1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls usually only find guys that already have girl friends attractive
2006-06-14 17:08:40 · answer #10 · answered by Uppy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably liked u and then felt scared so changed her mind..i understand the female mine because i am one!
2006-06-14 17:08:48 · answer #11 · answered by starscapexx9 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋