He asked me to give him a bj, i left him for that but i still ask my self how could a nice person do that? those disgusting things are only for bad street girls NOT good ones. Heelp im traumatized.
2006-06-14 10:00:37 · 60 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HOW OLD ARE YOU??? HEHEHEHE YA MISS OUT SOMETHING GOOD.. AND YEAH.. HE DOES HAS A RIGHT TO ASK.. IT'S UP TO U IF U WANNA DO IT OR NOT.. AND ERR.. THOSE ARE NOT FOR BAD STREET GIRLS.. I'LL SMACK THE HECK OUTTA YOU IF U WERE HERE..
2006-06-14 10:02:26 · answer #1 · answered by AzNgUrL 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a normal part of today's society and most women will give a guy a bj, whether they are good girls or bad street girls as you say. Get over it and start dealing with what is going on in today's society and start doing what you feel is right. You should have told him you didn't want to give him one and asked if you could still go out even though you didn't want to do what he wanted you to do because it is your decision whether or not you want to give one.
2006-06-20 17:57:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you did the right thing by leaving him. That was wrong of him to ask you, because i would think that if you wanted to give him one you would. Though, i dont think that its only for bad street girls. Im a good girl too. Im gonna wait to have sex after im married. I'll probably give him a bj, but not cuz he asks, cuz i wanna give him pleasure.
You should have dumped him. You did the right thing. Only do something, when your ready and want to.
2006-06-14 10:05:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhm... you sound really young. Maybe if you´re under the age of 15 then you´ll be a little traumatized. Unless he tried or did force you to give him a bj then there´s nothing wrong with him asking. Oral sex is part of almost all relationships
2006-06-16 05:42:46 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica Cohen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?? Giving a bj is perfectly normal. There is absolutely nothing wrong with oral sex between two consenting adults. You will be hard pressed to find a man who does not enjoy getting a BJ. Please get over this bad street girl thing. It's ridulous for you to think that. It's not true. Good girls and married women do give head often, nothing wrong with it. It's just another normal expression of love and sexual feelings. Please grow up.
2006-06-14 10:07:04 · answer #5 · answered by CuriousGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Giving head is not for bad street girls, when a girl is in love, she will do anything. I havnt. I have nothing to say about that, But thats how I feel, its a persons own personal decision. And married women also please their husbands by giving them oral. Thats part of sex, some women do it, and some women dont. So dont be traumatized, youll get over it.
2006-06-14 10:08:26 · answer #6 · answered by Happily Married 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok girl calm down, u're probably making a big deal outta dis bcuz u have never tried it before or u've never been asked this before. To guys oral sex is like nothing and thats what u should understand, remember some guys are very immature and they don't have the decency to even think the question over. I think that if u were with a more mature guy, u wouldn't have to leave him like..and please, i'm not a street girl!!!!
2006-06-14 10:11:35 · answer #7 · answered by dimples 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just dont do it if you dont want to. thats all u had to tell him but you broke up with him for sumthin that u didnt really have to make a big deal about. Honey diz is 2006 and life is reality so stop whining over dumb stuff. Oh yeah and Bj'z are not only for bad street gurls. anyone can do it (except for boyz)
2006-06-14 10:12:16 · answer #8 · answered by ronnie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you & he?
how long was he your boyfriend?
this is not something that should traumatize you, neither should you leave someone who treats you well for asking you to explore with him sexually - if you are monogamous
disgusting. . .& bad street girls - hmmm?
good girls - - honey, you would be surprised at what the "good girls" do behind closed doors
Uppy - what? - it IS sex - oral SEX - it counts okay & diseases can be spread that way - not to mention seems like a youngster here, you KNOW that guy is gonna be braggin on it!
2006-06-14 10:05:44 · answer #9 · answered by allnatural 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally dont like doing it but its not a thing only bad girls do. You shouldn't be traumatized over this. When I first read your heading I thought you were going to say he wanted to have a threesome with another girl.
2006-06-14 10:03:12 · answer #10 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you will ever meet a guy that doesn't want that you're crazy. I hope you're not holding out for some miracle man who thinks receiving oral sex is disgusting because chances are you'll be alone forever. They all love it! You'll either have to get used to the idea that you'll be doing it for your husband/boyfriend one day or plan on buying a bunch of cats because you're going to be alone!
2006-06-14 10:07:08 · answer #11 · answered by miss_angel_eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋