Me and this been talking for 5 days and yesterday he told me how he felt about me we talk for like 5-7 hours a day and I told him im scared to get in a relation ship cause in the past I been though a lot of bad guys so its hard for me to trust in guys and he said he is going to prove to me that his different from all other guys and he says his ready for a serious relation ship and dosnt want to play around no more and he told his family already about me and want to meet them
And he said when im ready he will be waiting and his not in a rush wat does this meen should I tell him how I feel to or wait
2006-06-14 09:53:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
now what do you mean youve been talking to him ? like online? if thats the case, then you have bigger problems than that. get to know him first - 5 days does not - again does NOT mean anything at all. YOu may not like him when you do get to know him . good luck =)
2006-06-14 09:58:03 · answer #1 · answered by Jackie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is rushing you a little, to me it sounds like that anyway. Maybe using reverse psychology.
plus it has been only five days. that is not long enough to gain a good perspective of his character.
What you are going through right now is the initial Infatuation stage. He seems like the perfect guy. many relationships do not last long if they start here, because later on they see more of the person, and some realize that they were wrong about him or her and rushed into it.
If he is in no rush, why is he wanting you to meet his parents so soon?
also, if he is a good guy he does not need to prove anything. he just needs to be himself, and you can see how good of a person he is.
If I were you, I would wait a while and find out more about him. You do not know all about him in only five days. Wait a while.
but, it is all up to you.
good luck and God Bless.
2006-06-15 06:17:18 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Joshua 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well five days is not really a long time, so my advice to you would be to continue talking and see how things go. If he says that he can prove to you that he is going to be different, then let him. You guys just need to enjoy each others company and take things slow. You do not want to move too fast and then things don't work out and you feel bad, so just take things slow. If he means what he says, it sounds like you have a winner. So just take the time to get to know each other more and see how things play out. As far as meeting his parents, there is nothing wrong with meeting people, that will give you a feel for what they are like and how his relationship is with his parents.
2006-06-14 10:02:50 · answer #3 · answered by Food4Thought 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sandra - slow down, take a deep breath...
This isn't the guy's problem this is yours. No man can prove anything to you no matter how sincere he is. If you truly can't trust men, this guy is not going to be any different.
IT'S ONLY BEEN 5 DAYS!!
You don't even know each other! You have some insecurities that you need to sort out before you can even think about having a serious relationship.
Just slow down, take a deep breath, and find out why you're having such troubles trusting men.
All the best!
2006-06-14 10:00:33 · answer #4 · answered by adrian_biccum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe hes a really good guy, why dont you give him a chance, but if you dont, than you will miss out on being with a really great guy. Whats the worst that can happen, your gonna get hurt again? Youll get over it. love hurts. Thats life. Give him a chance, its a life experience, are you gonna go around all your life thinking this guy is gonna hurt you, or your afraid to start a relationship? You gotta take chances in life. And you never know, he might be what your looking for, but youll never find out unless you give him a chance. And he even said hes gonna be waiting for you, so whats the rush? Date him and see how it goes, aviously you cant trust someone in two days of dating. so just date him, see what happens, see if you like him. It takes time, so dont be afraid, be strong, and in time, youll see everything.
Soo Good Luck!
2006-06-14 09:56:29 · answer #5 · answered by Happily Married 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's this serious and told his family about you after 5 days, don't take much of what he has to say seriously. He might think he's feeling these things, but nobody can tell after such a short time. If anything, appreciate that he's this into you and tell him it's important to let this stuff develop over it's own natural course. You can't force a serious relationship after less than a week.
2006-06-14 09:56:51 · answer #6 · answered by senormooquacka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a very nice person. Give him a chance to prove himself. As he said no rush, so no rush. Take your time and meet his family. And let things take there own turn for better for worst.
You should tell him how you feel no matter what, thats the most important thing in a realtionship.
2006-06-14 09:58:35 · answer #7 · answered by Annu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so cute you found yourself a good one.... Follow your heart mija i know how it feels to be scaried to be in a new relationship ..... but it doesn't hurt to take a chance you know what i mean yes that good that he say dat but dont use that for advantgment you know what i mean he waiting for you intill u r ready give it shot but i aint telling you to rush into things hey he seems like a good guy but they are all good in the beginning hey long as he respects you and doesn't abuse you.
2006-06-14 10:08:38 · answer #8 · answered by Loca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont rush it
if you're not ready then dont get into a relationship to soon
he said he'd wait for you so you can take as long as you need
but hes basically hoping for under a year ..... the sooner the better
2006-06-14 09:58:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems he is willing to take time, getting to know you and for you to know him, and his family.
Sounds like a great guy, so just do as he suggests, and take things nice and slow and easy.
There is no rush, and you can get to know him and trust him. All that takes is time, so just go ahead and date him.
2006-06-14 09:58:45 · answer #10 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋